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Sex Confession: I Show My Friends Naked Photos of My Husband

by Michele Zipp on November 12, 2012 at 6:14 PM

lips kissing"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Today Laurie* is spilling the beans about the naughty photos she takes of her husband ... and what she does with them. Laurie is awfully proud of her husband's package. The couple, who are both in their 30s, enjoy taking steamy pics of each other before, after, and even during sex. Full-frontal nudity. Penetration. Oh yes, she has photos of all of it. She says they love reviewing the photos for their own pleasure and it turns them on ... kind of like looking at a porno mag, only they are the stars. What her husband doesn't know, however, is that she shows her friends as well. Let's hear her reasoning, shall we?

I might earn myself a lot of haters for this one, but my husband has nothing to worry about -- all my friends LOVE seeing photos of him naked. I think it's a turn-on for them! If he knew the comments they gave me when they see the photos, it would make him proud ... excited. But of course he doesn't know I share the pics with them.

It all started in a group I'm in on Facebook. It's a bunch of women and we are all close and share a lot of things. One day, I shared a photo of my man -- a photo of his penis. And my friends freaked out -- they loved it. So every now and then I show more. Some of the other women in the group have shown similar photos, too. Lots of naked stuff, some sexy time stuff, and it's as simple as this: It's just fun.

I haven't told my husband only because I like that it's my little sex group filled with women who come to each other for advice and friendship. I want the group to remain my thing -- it's like a coffee date with my girl friends. I was thinking I could tell him I showed one of my friends a photo of us having sex in person -- without telling him about the online group. Just so he knows. And I'm sure he'll get a kick out of it. And in case you were wondering, I would be completely okay if he showed any of his buddies any of the photos.

What do you think of Laurie's confession? Should she share those intimate photos with friends online without her husband's knowledge? Would you?


*Name has been changed.

Image via NeoGaboX/Flickr

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  • lilly
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    November 12, 2012 at 11:01 PM
    You know if this was a husband showing pictures of his wife to his friends without her knowledge, there would be a complete uproar.
  • OKgirl


    November 13, 2012 at 12:50 AM
    WTF? Are you kidding me? What a breach of his trust.
  • maria...


    November 13, 2012 at 8:54 AM
    Lol. I've done it and so has he.. harmless fun.

  • derppb
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    November 13, 2012 at 9:21 AM
    I would call this a "judgement call of trust". the lady is making a judgement call that her partner is ok with her actions. If they are a couple she probably knows him well enough to figure out if this is OK or not. If showing the photos were malicious I would call it a breach of trust.
  • jalaz77


    November 13, 2012 at 10:11 AM
    Um I think it's weird. I would have a problem looking at a naked man I know that I am not having sex with or in some kind of a relationship with, ex. friends with benefits...I would be uncomfortable being friends with that person. I am not a prude, pretty open to stuff but this is strange to me.
  • Scott
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    November 13, 2012 at 1:19 PM
    I would bet that he's a lot more comfortable (and maybe a lot turned on) with her showing his goods than if he showed her stuff to his friends.
  • CPN322


    November 13, 2012 at 4:50 PM

    I agree with derppb. That being said, my man has quite the package himself, definitely brag worthy BUT I would NEVER share a picture of it with my friends. That doesn't sit well with me. I'm cool with porn because the people in it are strangers. I don't want to see my friends mens packages and hope they don't want to see mine's either. I hope her man really would be cool with her showing her friends naked pictures of him since she already has.

  • Tanst...
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    November 26, 2012 at 11:11 PM
    While I would be absolutely THRILLED to learn that my wife admires my body so much that she just has to show it off to her friends, I am not keen on the idea of posting such photos on facebook - once you post something on the internet it can end up ANYWHERE. It would hate to have the internet search that is becoming SOP for the hiring process at many companies turn up the pictures and kill my shot at a job.
  • Darianne
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    November 29, 2012 at 2:54 PM
    That's dumb of her for putting them on the internet. Once it's out there, it's there forever. If it were like an in person thing where she shows her friends his junk on her phone it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But putting them on Facebook, even if it is in a group, is completely asinine.
  • Jamie...
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    Jamie Lechner

    November 30, 2012 at 11:59 AM

    Holy hell NO! If he was doing that same thing she would be PISSED! What a double standard of deceit. I hope he finds out, I really do!

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