10 'Sexy' Moments Men & Women See Totally Different

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We all know men and women are different. Besides the obvious plumbing, they seem to speak a different language too. But it goes much further than that. When it comes to being sexy, both genders have real unique views.

Sexy can certainly refer to more than just a hot body, of course. Your mind, your eyes, your attitude, they can all attribute to an overall sense of sexiness. But even so, the differing of opinions is pretty staggering. Take a look at some examples:

Romantic Dinner
Sexy for Her: Homemade dinner with a beautiful set table, classical music softly playing in the background, candles flickering, and slow soft talking.
Sexy for Him: Pizza and a beer on the couch, while watching the game. She's wearing nothing but his football Jersey.

Sexy for Her: Soft, moist lips, slowly pressing against each other in the absolute lightest of touches.
Sexy for Him: Tonsil hockey!

Sexy for Her: Seeing a dad patiently sitting with his son, helping him out with his homework.
Sexy for Him: Hearing her say, "The kids are at my mom's for the night."

Sexy for Her: Doing heavy bench presses or dumb bell curls with a ferocious intensity in their eyes.
Sexy for Him: Jumping jacks or trampolining in a bikini.

Sexy for Her: Looking at her phone to see a message that says, "I'm coming home for lunch, but I'm only hungry for you."
Sexy for Him: Glancing at his phone to see a topless photo with the caption, "Come and get 'em!"

Bedroom Attire
Sexy for Her: Nothing but a top sheet.
Sexy for Him: Nothing but high heels.

Sexy for Her: A guy who's worldy, knows about finances, politics, law
Sexy for Him: A gal who knows the the three stats used in baseball's Triple Crown.

Sexy for Her: Watching Ryan Gosling pour his heart out during a rainstorm to Rachel McAdams in The Notebook
Sexy for Him: That three-boobed chick on Mars that propositions Arnold Schwarzenegger in Total Recall

Sexy for Her: Truly listening to her problems and genuinely offering support and a shoulder to cry on.
Sexy for Him: Knowing that "shrinkage" is a legitimate thing!

Sexy for Her: A man in uniform.
Sexy for Him: A nurse's uniform.

What do you find sexy in the opposite sex?

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nonmember avatar Laura

Ohhh reeeeaaally?

kjbug... kjbugsmom1517

some of these were hilarious and soooooo things my husband would say!

Bruic... Bruickson

I think I speak for a lot of us when I say thank you for not putting them in a slide show! When I saw the title I just knew it was going to be a slide show and they are such a pain in the ass when you are using the mobile version. So thanks again and pass it along to your blogger friends lol. Super funny article btw!

names... namestaken

I feel sorry for your wife.

Rae.302 Rae.302

Mr. Kardon, you never fail to make me laugh!

Though, the dinner one I object to, at least for me personally. I would much rather throw on a jersey and watch the game as opposed to doing my hair, and make up, and donning heels and a dress that makes me feel like I cant breathe! Lol.

Ashleigh Munson

Home runs, batting average, RBIs. :-) And I'd much rather be in a jersey drinking beer and watching the game.

nonmember avatar Jefftee

Now I'm concerned. I'm a married man and my sexies for your subjects above are:
Dinner: A country inn by a fireplace or by a window with a partially frozen stream & waterfall outside, soft music & talk.
Kissing: the soft one
Parenting: a family picnic in the park, complete with playing catch and/or teaching the son/daughter about fishing
Exercise: Long, long walks or bike rides.
Sexting: I do not sext (nor even text). I'd rather hear her voice on the phone.
Bedroom attire: what's that?
Intelligence: Can understand and respond when I talk about politics, sports, finances or anything else. Has her own opinions and can (sometimes) beat me at scrabble or trivial puruit.
Movies: Sorry, I'm a sucker for sappy movies like Tall Story or The Promise or One Touch of Venus, even the bad ones.
Sensitivity: She doesn't laugh when I tear up over those sappy movies.
Clothing: Love a spring skirt and peasant blouse, but depends on the woman.
As for what I find sexy in the opposite sex: 1. Eyes 2. Smile 3. Humor and intelligence 4. Evenness of temperament 5. Legs 6. General muscle tone

Meg Moore

you really have no clue about women,do you?

god,you're such a cliche asshole.

ScrChk23 ScrChk23

I love watching my man use his chainsaw and fix stuff.

jen1130 jen1130

Seeing my DH work on his car...pretty sexy always, has been.

My DH would think I went nuts if I started spitting out sports stuff he is not really into sports maybe a little basketball if he gets free tickets or hockey again with free tickets but that's it.

For me driving or riding in DH's car with AC/DC playing holding hands: )

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