7 Signs It's Totally Time to Dump Him

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There are a lot of things that go along with romantic relationships: love, companionship, commitment ... and breakups. Breakups happen to (almost) all of us, which means that we've all experienced the "should I stay or should I go?" moments in our lives. Sometimes, they can be cut and dried, but other times, it's a whole big mess.

Here are some signs that it's TOTALLY time to dump him.

1) He talks trash about you. Maybe it's to an ex. Maybe it's to his coworkers. Maybe it's to the guys. Either way, you've found out he's talking smack, and really, how can you trust someone with so little regard for you?

2) You caught him cheating. Infidelity in any relationship is a hard pill to swallow, so if you don't think that cheating is one of those things you'll be able to "get over," dump him.

3) Playing interference. We all have families, and many of us aren't super close to them. That's okay. But when your boyfriend's sister's best friend's girlfriend is quick to try and mess with your relationship? It's time to take a closer look at your partner.

4) You want to get married. He doesn't. When the desire for marriage is very one-sided, it's time to take a hard look at your relationship to determine whether or not you want to wait around to see if he's going to change his mind.

5) Different strokes. Sure, different strokes rule the world, but do they have to ruin your relationship? Do you want to share a life with someone whose beliefs are vastly dissimilar? Be warned: while it may not be a problem initially, this is a lasting condition, not something that is likely to change.

6) Mama's boy. You found yourself a Mama's Boy. Sure, that's sweet that he adores his mom, but really, if she's going to start causing drama in your life -- and bad-mouthing you -- consider whether or not this relationship is worth a lifetime of meddling by his mother.

7) You can't stop fighting. You argue about which side of the bed you sleep on. The way he can't put the cap on the toothpaste. The way he doesn't text you when he says he will. Constant arguing with each other is a good sign that the relationship is on a fast-track to nowhere.

What are some other reasons you should dump your guy?

 

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early... earlybird11

Heres the thing; If you give advice, be sure to know what the hell your talking about--- but then again if that was the case, this wouldnt be the stir!


5) Different strokes. Sure, different strokes rule the world, but do they have to ruin your relationship? Do you want to share a life with someone who's beliefs are vastly dissimilar? Be warned: while it may not be a problem initially, this is a lasting condition, not something that is likely to change.


 


WOW - this is a horrible piece of advice A  LASTING CONDITION?!?!?! wow! Act like being different and not one of those sick in sync couples is a disease why dontcha? My husband, jewish when we married, I am catholic, decided he is questioning his religion of birth- Me personally? I would never do that - Im strong in my beliefs and active in my spirtituality. We couldnt be more different in religion, and its NEVER a contention. Its called COMMUNICATION. We discussed what our children would be raised and what the general theme in our home would be as far as relgion, and we do not tolerate anything but respect for the others beliefs or non beliefs... Other vast differences? I like to get things done EARLIER THEN NECESSARY. He is the biggest procrastinator I know. - the list could go on and on and on... COMMUNICATION FIXES ALL THESE ITEM..... we have been married 4 years and together a total of 9 - There have been rough moments to deal with. but hell that would have happened no matter what....

nonmember avatar Tigerese

I agree with family interference. Some families are truly horrible and if a person allows a family member to get out of line with a partner by "pretending not to notice" or believes it's not a big deal that their mate is subjected to verbal, emotional, or physical attacks then cut that person out of your life for good.

nonmember avatar Jessica

Two words: NO SEX!

brand... brandspanknnew

@Earlybird11; Not every relationship is like that. Sometimes people can get passed that phase, some are not. Every relationship is different.

jmama... jmama0307

I agree with number 3.

nonmember avatar Magrate

I agree with the all from number 1-7.

JenJe... JenJen8944

He always want to borrow money but forgets to pay you back or tell ies about the amount he knows that he owes you.


 


If he has a drinking, drug or gambling problem,  he can't be trusted, he will lie steal and cheat to get his habits met.

nonmember avatar Anonymous

8) You "need space" because there's a hot new guy at work and your hubby's just not doing it for you any more... c'mon, ladies, be honest.

nonmember avatar nb

one sided intimacy, lying, very little sex and affection (his timeline), oogling every women, then the "i am over my depression now" slow-fade, zero commitment.
did i mention i think he might be a narcissist?

nonmember avatar christine

I think it is time for me to kick my guy to the curb. His mother interferes, I have caught him on dating sites and he has talked shit about me to friends. plus he has no interest in living together or getting married. He is a mamma's piece of shit boy who should NEVER be in a relationship.

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