Kristen Stewart Doesn't Have to Let Go of Robert Pattinson Just Yet

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kristen stewart as bellaBeing that Kristen Stewart's every move is being tracked by gossipmongers everywhere, we're already well aware that the actress finally faced the world this week for the first time since publicly apologizing for her infidelity. And also how, yesterday, she was spied sporting none other than Robert Pattinson's Baltimore Orioles hat and the ring he gave her.

Eesh! Nothing says "not over it" like continuing to rock your ex's entire wardrobe, huh? (Then again, maybe she's not over it, because they're not actually over, but that's a whole different conversation ...) Guess he forgot those few items when Rob moved out of the home they once shared?

Although it might initially look a bit desperate, KStew's really just handling heartbreak like any 22-year-old would ...

She's clearly clinging to anything she possibly can to keep her feeling like Rob's still around. Totally understandable, completely natural, and even, yeah, at this point ... a healthy way to cope with her emotional distress, I'd say. And I wouldn't necessarily say she needs to ever toss 'em or give 'em back. (Unless she's skeeved by the fact that she was photographed wearing Rob's hat while creepin' behind his back with Rupert. Ew.)

I'm sure there are plenty of people who assert that holding onto any remnants from a busted-up relationship is unhealthy, but I don't necessarily agree. Obviously, she shouldn't continue to walk around wearing Rob's clothing if the two remain broken up. Those items must find their way into some sort of box ... and stored in a place where they'll be out of sight and out of mind -- most of the time.

But having them tucked away in a place where she can look back wistfully at them one day would be fine. Maybe it's far too hopeless a romantic of me, but I don't see any harm in that. As long as you can get to a place emotionally where those belongings conjure up nothing more than a sentimental memory, it's totally cool.

But I'd venture to guess that for Kristen, getting to that point is going to take a looong time.

How do you feel about holding onto an ex's belongings?

 

Image via Summit Entertainment

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nonmember avatar Emily

I totally think you're right on this one. It's sort of, kind of ( and I mean this in the least disrespectful way possible ) like the death of a loved one. You eventually have to move on. But it's so nice to know that pieces of that time are still available to remind you of the good times.

nonmember avatar shelley

shes wearing them cause they are still together, my goodness JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE

twili... twilightsbella

To bad so sad kristen. U aint good enough for rob. He deserves a good woman who will be faithful to him not some trashy whore like u who has no self respect.

nonmember avatar Guest

Haven't you heard that they are working things out? There are so many hints and insider talks. If you read things carefully, you'll know they will reconcile eventually.

nonmember avatar lori f.

Not to be mean but I am almost getting bored with all these Rob/Kristen stories,rumors, LIES!!,and speculations!!!After reading this article I think I have finally come to realize that most of them if not all are fabricated. I have read several of your articles about them in the past month and I remember a more recent one you did on how you believe the whole thing is a hoax more or less to gett ratings. Now reading this it totally flips the coin on what your writing. I am gonna have to stop reading articles about them period because it is starting to turn me off of Twilight and Rob. Both of whom Iam a fan. Love Rob to death but these stories are leaving me with a bitter taste in my mouth and I don't want that!!! Kristen I could leave her or I could leave her. Think I'll leave her!!! STOP IT!!! This has become a big fuckin joke!!!

nonmember avatar b

@Shelley, I totally agree with u! Instead of letting ktew look like a desperate fool, they might be back together that's why she's wearing Rob's things. I'm pretty sure he would have taken those things back if they were totally broken up. Leave it be... Shit happens, some people forgive and take back the person who's done them wrong, heck so many women do that when their man cheat, why can't women be given a second chance if they slip???

Mary Adams Ostrom

IF YOU ALL JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE. they may work things out JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE

Jennifer Kupper Swan

I wish The Stir was them


And 50 Shades of nothing.

Jennifer Kupper Swan

Cripes, stupid keyboard.


I wish The Stir was over Stewart/Pattinson and while we are at it, 50 Shades of nothing.

Liza Woods

Shes just a desperate little skank, they ARE NOT getting back together, Rob knows whats best for him, and I am getting sick of the regurgetated bull...I keep up with this because I'm worried about sweet Rob and love hearing that he's doing well and making movies. ALL OF YOU WHO MAKE SUCH A BIG DEAL OVER THEM GETTING BACK TOGETHER, GET A LIFE!!!

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