bed“Sex Confessions” is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.

Today's sex confession comes from Zoe*, who is so freaked out about sharing this she doesn't want to reveal anything about herself just in case someone she knows reads it and suspects it's her. But she wants to talk about it -- she wants to talk about how kinky her husband is and wonders if it's normal. Actually, she knows it's normal, but she thinks it's just not very typical that her husband likes her to use a dildo in his butt. His not hers. Read on to hear more from Zoe.

My husband ... oh I love the man. He is never boring ever. Our sex life has been exciting from day one and now at day 12,983 or something it is still super fun. We are always trying new things even when I didn't think there were new things to try. He makes it unexpected and it always feel new. I feel like a really lucky lady. But I also never hear any other women talk about sex with their husbands the way I have sex with mine. And it kind of makes me feel my husband is a freak of the sexual nature ... well, I don't think so but I think other people would think so.

While so many of my friends talk about how they have to practically beg their men to have sex with them or how they never want to have sex in the first place, I'm left with nothing to add to that conversation. I have a good sex life -- we have sex enough, but not too much. And I only beg if that's the type of sexual scenario we want to play that day.

I also hear how some women say their husbands are too rough -- too wham bam and done. I count my lucky stars my guy isn't like that either.

But I never hear anyone talk about how their man likes it in the ass. Is it really that taboo? Is it totally absurd that my honey likes me to put my finger in his back door when he is close to orgasm? He also loves to play with sex toys in his rear, too. And me? I love that he loves it. There was one time I heard another person talk about men liking things in their butts during sex and she said she thought it meant the guy was gay. Totally ignorant. So while I feel like I am the only one with a husband who likes this kind of stuff, I know I really can't be. Can I?

Okay, readers! Let's all chime in here and tell Zoe that she isn't alone. That plenty of men love that, too. Or maybe you have something else to say ....

 

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*Name has been changed.