“Sex Confessions” is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, some will turn you on, and some are dark and twisted. You might want to sit down for this.
Today's sex confession comes from Lynn*, a 40-something married mom of three kids. She can't stop fantasizing about her daughter's swim coach. She admits she has it bad for the handsome, 20-something aqua-man, so bad that she can barely get words out when he talks to her ... about her daughter, of course. She can't get him off her mind and he is the subject of her naughty daydreams. This lust affair is a one-way deal, and embarrassingly, Lynn's daughter is on to her. Read on to hear more of her confession in her own words.
I'm not sure if I'm more upset that I can't get this guy out of my head or that my daughter is completely aware of my massive crush on her swim coach. I honestly feel like a high schooler myself. Totally immature. But this guy -- wow, this guy. He is so cute, so sweet to all the kids, and he has invaded my mind. I cannot stop thinking about him and my thoughts are almost entirely impure.
I have thought about him when having sex with my husband. I have thought about him while pleasuring myself. I have thought about what he would be like if he were the father of my kids.
That last one might be the worst offender because I do love my husband. He's a great dad, but not around much because he works a lot. Maybe I'm just missing my husband. Maybe it's because our kids are grown, and I'm looking at an empty nest soon enough and with all the kids gone off to college, I'll be left all alone. Maybe that's why I'm thinking things like this. I see this young guy with my kids and think, Wow! I wish my husband was able to be more involved.
I'm not sure what it is but I've completely embarrassed my daughter because she can tell that her coach makes me all giddy. She doesn't want me at her meets anymore and she wants me to stay in the car when I pick her up and not come to the pool area like I used to. I feel like that will make it all the more obvious.
I think I need to talk to my husband. I think I need him to figure out a way to be more present. So these feelings I have for another man can subside and they don't get worse and I actually try to act on them.
What advice would you give to this confessor? Is it all that bad to fantasize about other people when married?
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