It's been nine months since Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher divorced, but Demi may still be pretty bent out of shape about the breakup. According to not exactly air-tight sources in Now magazine, Demi's been "fuming" since she heard that Ashton was rumored to be dating former That '70s Show co-star Mila Kunis. She's reportedly sure this confirms that that Ashton was cheating with Mila "for years." Dun dun duuuuh.
The tabloid says Demi's been thinking of times when Ashton was "sloping off to-dos where Mila must've been." And even though Ashton has supposedly denied to his ex that anything is going on with Mila, it's kinda obvious from all the time they've been spending together that they're at least really, really close friends.
But say they are more than friends. And say they were fooling around behind Demi's back ... Is it really something Demi needs to be freaking out about now?
This is seriously water under the bridge! Back when Demi and Ashton called it quits in November, massive rumors were swirling that the split had to do with his various infidelities. So what difference would it make if Demi were to discover now that he was getting with Mila while they were still married? If a guy is a cheater, he's a cheater. Finding out that he cheated more or further back or with a different woman isn't going to really change anything.
Oh sure, if it's true, she has every right to be even more pissed than she already was. But it's not like worrying about it and being furious over it now isn't going to do her any good. (Especially considering what her mental/physical state has been rumored to be like as of late.) Fixating on an ex is never healthy. By thinking in terms of "coulda, shoulda, woulda," "what if"s and "maybe"s, you're just setting yourself up for a neurotic downward spiral. What's done is done. They're divorced. It's OVER.
Of course it's easier said than done, but Demi -- and any woman who finds herself scorned -- would do much better to re-focus any energy spent "fuming" on getting over the past.
Do you think Demi has every right to be fuming about this now or needs to move on?
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