8 Great Ways to Arouse a Woman

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The media will have us believe that dudes are the only ones with any sex drive. I call bullsh*t on that one.

As a female with a *ahem* sex drive, I'd like to point out that I am not the ONLY woman in the world to look forward to a down-and-dirty session between the sheets!

You want to turn us on, boys? Here's how.

1) Take care of some manscaping. We're not asking you to be metro, boys, we just don't want to be flossing with your hair!

2) Keep an eye on your appearance. Everyone gets bad hair and blackheads sometimes, but how about you pretend to care a bit about looking sex-ay for us.

3) Nibble our ears. There's something super sensitive about the ears, and a gentle nibble is sure to get us rocking and rolling. That said, please don't stick your tongue in there -- that gives us the heebie-jeebies.

4) Talk a little dirty to her and see how she responds. It can be wicked hot to hear, "I want you," while we're out at the bar together.

5) Couples' porn is NEVER a bad thing. I'm not saying we have to bust out the hardcore stuff, but a little softcore porn can absolutely get us in the mood.

6) Lick her neck. Again, not like a slobbery dog or anything, but a gentle nibble-n-lick is damn sexy. Oh, and don't suck -- we're too old for hickeys.

7) Get some nice scented body oil and give your lady a massage. But don't touch her naughty bits (not yet, at least) -- just tease her a bit.

8) Get spooning -- curl up together and begin to softly kiss her neck as she lays there curled into you. You keep at it? She's going to go crazy for you.

What are some other ways to turn us ladies on?


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jkm89 jkm89

Manscaping, I wish all men would do that! It's just common courtesy, lol.

Gailll Gailll

Lubricants along with forplay.

nonmember avatar American Expat

Don't be ugly. That's a REAL turn off for women. :(

nonmember avatar Tiffany

Thank you! I love having my ear nibbled, but as soon as that tongue goes in my ear...ugh! Mood lost.

Lucre... LucretiaMcEvil

Just stop farting around me! Aaahhh!

Eleonor Agonod

i like tongue nibbled on my ear and nick...ohhh

Beth Webb

Skip the manscaping? EEEEWWWWWW that's just gross.

nonmember avatar anonymous

There are many ways to arouse a woman. Here are Four Ways that you may want to try to arouse a woman:

1. Exercising together and getting Proper nourishment. (check out free eating practice at lulu.com) 2. Long walks and talks shared together. 3. Listening to her. 4. Read a book to her!

Ps...A great book to help arouse you and your wife is called 'The Masseur' at lulu.com

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