There are some things a man should never, ever say to his wife. Well ladies, that goes both ways. Woman have certainly been known to stick a foot in their mouths too.
Here are the 12 questions, comments, and complaints no man wants to hear from the woman he loves:
- "My ex always appreciated when I ..." No guy wants to be compared to some jerk you broke up with a long time ago. If he was so great, why aren't you still with him?
- "Does this make me look fat?" Do you really want an honest answer if that answer is yes? I didn't think so. Save both of you the anguish.
- "Are you using your Rogaine?" If he's losing his hair, he doesn't need your so-called helpful reminder. Trust me, that receding hairline bothers him way more than it bothers you.
- "Hold my purse." I have yet to meet a man who is comfortable with this demand. The only thing worse is having to hold it outside a dressing room while you try on a million pairs of jeans.
- "Is it in yet?" Well, if you are talking about a DVD, this one is fine. If it's during sex, just figure out the answer on your own.
- "Do you think that girl is hot?" By now, every guy should know this is a trap. If you think she's hot, chances are he does. Nothing good can come from him telling you that.
- "I don't care what team is playing. We need to talk about ..." Guys dream all day about coming home and watching the game. Let them have those two hours.
- "I hate your mother!" Trust me, he knows. He can feel the tension every time you two are in the room together.
- "I don't really need sex." Come on! You need sex, but maybe not the way you've been having it. Find a sensitive way of telling him what to do differently.
- "You can't fix that?!" Not every guy has an inner handyman. Don't beat him up for that, just have a plumber's number handy.
- "Why don't you ever buy me stuff like her husband does?" That neighbor may have nice, new bling but you have no idea what her man is like behind closed doors.
- "Are you gonna eat that?" You know how much you hate jibes about your weight? Well, so does he.
What are other things a woman should never say to her man?
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What is wrong with him holding the purse? I hold his wallet if he needs me to. What a silly list.
my hubs holds my purse and doesn't care, heck he buys tampons and pads too. granted he sends me a picture text to make sure he is getting the right ones but that a plus in my book. and if i am feeling to lazy to walk or cant walk he will carry me/piggyback. we have been out a couple times where my blood sugar dropped dramatically, and a few time where my dumb ass wore heels to do a lot of walking lol.
STRAWBERRYRAIN--he's a keeper!
Only one I have used is "does this make me look fat?" And if the answer is yes, I thank him and change. My dh is as honest as the day is long. I know I'll get the truth from him
Do not ask "What is wrong with you" unless you want a long list of what he thinks is wrong with you and then weeks of him being grouchy because in his head he is going through all the things he thinks are wrong with both of you.
...This list is silly.
My husband would carry my purse if I had a purse, My ex is a douchebag, His ex almost managed to weasel her slimy way between us, But I won.
#2..he answers honestly. #5... I wish I had that problem his "tool" tears me everytime....#6... Id hit it to if she was hot.