Love & Sex

“Sex Confessions” is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, and all will turn you on (well most). You might want to sit down for this.

Today's sex confession comes from a 20-something woman from California who works in an office with a door ... and a window. She's happily married and she and her husband have sex often, but she needs to masturbate every day after lunch -- even when she's at work. It's become an obsession.

It all started one day last year when I was going through a really stressful time at work. I was telling a friend of mine about the problems at my job and she joked that it was too bad I couldn't just masturbate the stress away. I laughed at her but in my head I thought it was a really great idea. So I tried it.

I have an office and can close the door and no one would be the wiser of what I was doing. I also have a great big window and can see people on the street and the cars going by, though I am high enough where they can't really see me. One day after lunch, with my door still closed from having just ate, I touched myself. It was thrilling -- the part of me worried if someone was going to knock on the door, the fact that I felt exposed from the window. I kept going, massaging myself until I came. Quietly, of course. But that rush seemed to melt so much stress away. It became something I needed to do every day. Sometimes I am discrete and just put my hands down my pants or up my skirt. Other times, I take off my clothes completely. I even have a mini vibrator I bring with me and use sometimes.

Now I fear I can never NOT do it. It's like my body expects it. I've even scheduled meetings around the fact that I need to take care of my own business first. I'm not sure how to stop. Or even if I should.

What would you tell this confessor? Is it becoming too much? Or since no one knows, it's okay?

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