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Queen Elizabeth Gave Prince William & Kate Middleton the Best Wedding 'Gift' Ever

by Maressa Brown on May 22, 2012 at 9:10 PM

royal wedding kiss on balconyBe honest: Whenever you think of Queen Elizabeth, you don't think of a warm and fuzzy ol' granny. That woman is a monarch. She means business. But, you know, to Prince William, she is HRH Grandma. And having a grandmother with that much power has its perks! Especially when it comes to a wedding, which -- even when it's not a royal one -- can get so out of hand super fast.

In a new ITV1 documentary about Queen Elizabeth that airs next month, Wills opens up about how when he first started planning his wedding to Kate Middleton, he was handed the original royal wedding guest list (by whom is not clear) with 777 names on it ... and apparently, "not one person I knew or Catherine knew." How horrific! And we thought the royal wedding was all fun and games. Ha!

So how did Wills cope?

He took the list to the Queen! In the documentary, he explains:

I went to her and said, 'Listen, I've got this list, not one person I know – what do I do?’ and [the Queen] went, 'Get rid of it. Start from your friends and then we’ll add those we need to in due course. It’s your day.’ 

WOW! (And I'm not just saying that, because I had no idea the Prince has adopted Valley girl terms like "went" and "goes" instead of "says." But anyway, I digress ...)

Now, okay, I admit that the skeptical side of me thinks that maybe the Queen ended up tossing the royal couple a curveball or two before their "I do"s actually occurred, but still. Must give her props for helping them out with the guest list from the get-go! Usually, couples are dealing with the opposite situation -- aka their parents or grandparents are the ones giving them an enormous list of strangers they have to invite.

And yes, that's just one of the lovely side effects of the spring 2013 wedding my fiance and I are currently planning. For me, thinking there will be strangers there on our Big Day -- people we have absolutely no relationship with there to celebrate our relationship -- is completely maddening. Looking at some of the guests who fit this description on our list, my fiance and I have been pulling our hair out, shouting "Why???" and anticipating a nasty showdown at some point with the parents who have demanded said guests.

Obviously, I can't even begin to imagine 777 strangers making up our entire wedding list. Gah, what a nightmare! Thank goodness for the Queen. Sounds like she really turned Kate and Wills' wedding from a potential annoyance into a real dream come true.

Can you believe this about the Queen? How did you feel about your wedding guest list including people you didn't know?



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  • poshkat
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    poshkat

    May 22, 2012 at 9:19 PM
    I think its great! I think the royal family, especially the queens learned their lesson from the Diana years and have come to understand how to mix royal duties and personal duties in a tactful and more laid back way.
  • Janey
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    Janey

    May 22, 2012 at 11:37 PM
    The reason parents get to invite people to their children's weddings is because weddings are communal, public events (traditionally, anyways). Your parents put a ton of time and effort into raising you, so they should get to invite a few friends to celebrate your official send off! A wedding is about family in general, usually, and about a community of support. It all has to be considered within reason, of course, and in accordance with financial realities.
  • navyw...
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    navywife0204

    May 23, 2012 at 12:55 AM

    My hubby and i paid for our wedding, and we inveited who we wanted.  My mother was the only one to show from our family.  But our local friends came, and we had fun!


  • -Stra...
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    -Strawberry-

    May 23, 2012 at 1:22 AM

    I wouldn't trade places with any of them for any thing or any reason. More power to them though.


  • Rhond...
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    RhondaVeggie

    May 23, 2012 at 7:41 AM
    My list didn't include anyone we didn't know. There were a few people I didn't know from my husband's family and vice versa but between us we knew everyone in the room. Of course there were friends of our parents there but we knew them. Unless your father is a bigwig and inviting lots of business contacts how do you wind up with people you don't know? If your parents friends are important enough to be invited to their daughters wedding aren't they important enough to meet you at some point beforehand?
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    Honey Badger

    May 23, 2012 at 8:00 AM

    did you seriously just type and use "Gah"?? Put down the E.L. James


  • jessi...
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    jessicasmom1

    May 23, 2012 at 9:02 AM

    I knew everyone at my wedding it was more personal


  • jalaz77
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    jalaz77

    May 23, 2012 at 9:30 AM
    Wow that is surprising. Our list was good. I just had a hard time getting the in-laws to RSVP, so I firmly told my hubby to tell his mother to start making calls now! I had to pull out the "your mother is paying for a DJ while my family pays for the rest and we need a head count so get on it" card. The list is dreadful to put together though.
  • killbill
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    killbill

    May 23, 2012 at 10:07 AM
    Aw, what a sweet way to apologize for killing his mother...that queen, she's a sweetie!
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    Rose Hominick

    May 23, 2012 at 10:40 AM
    Good for the Queen. Glad to see that she is human after all! However, I suspect that the Royal Wedding was not payed for by William and Kate, so a few extra guests would be understandable. O.K., so 777 is a ptretty big list, but consider the size of the venue ( I mean would you really want the abbey to look under-attended?) and the fact that it was a ROYAL WEDDING! So glad that they got to invite their actual friends though, as in the end it was their day and a celebration of their love. So everyone won! At our wedding we only had close friends and family. Why? Because we payed the shot ourselves. Simple. The Piper plays the tune, and in the end I guess that is the way it should be.
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