“Sex Confessions” is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, and all will turn you on. You might want to sit down for this.
Today's sex confession comes from a 35-year-old mom from Chicago who has been married to her sweetheart James* for 10 years. He's always wanted to have a threesome and she never thought it was something she was into ... until now. Here's what she has to say:
James has talked about having a threesome since we were dating and I told him I had a couple of sexual experiences with a girl. Of course that turned him on. He wanted to know every detail so I would tell him -- mostly after a glass or two of wine. I'd tell him how I loved the feeling of another woman's soft skin on mine. Her long hair trailing down my belly onto my legs. The sweet scent of her femininity. It all turned him on -- and me, too. He and I would make love with that thought in our heads. But I never wanted to share him with anyone, so a threesome was out of the question.
Still, that didn't stop us from fantasizing. And now, 10 years since our wedding, and 13 since we first started fantasizing about a threesome, I think I am finally ready. Of course I realize it will be very different than the one-on-one female experiences I have had. But the thought of that with my husband -- the man I love so deeply and trust immensely -- is such a turn-on. I want to see him with another woman, but just touching her with his hands, his mouth, not with his penis. That would be too much for me.
I'm thinking of asking one of my old college friends who I don't see very often but may be interested in a little weekend excursion with James and me. I'm nervous, but excited about it. I think we're ready to take this step and sexual adventure. Though I may have to have a glass of wine to calm my nerves when that day comes.
What advice would you give to this confessor? Would you (have you) ever had a threesome with your partner?
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