If your significant other needs a list of things he can and can't do, you might not be with the right guy. Kourtney Kardashian has reportedly given boyfriend and baby-daddy Scott Disick a list of five things he's not allowed to do if he wants to marry Kourtney. No clue if this is straight from Kourt or not, but the list is pretty comprehensive and one that makes sense when applied to Scott.
But it doesn't matter how applicable or reasonable of a list it is. The fact that there's a list in the first place, or a need for a list, is red flag enough.
Apparently, Kourtney is demanding that Scott continue to go to couple's therapy, spend more time with Mason, get a job, stop drinking, and stop going on "guys' trips."
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If these "stipulations" weren't obvious to him already, then maybe Scott really isn't cut out for the settled-life. If he needs to be told to act like a responsible adult who contributes to society and who's a supportive presence in his son's life, then, you know, maybe he's a lost cause for the time being.
And this isn't to blast Scott, if any person you're with needs to be instructed on what is and what isn't acceptable behavior, then maybe you need to find someone whose maturity level is more congruent with yours.
I mean, it's fine and more than encouraged to have talks about what you need and want, but it's entirely different to have to clue someone in that "getting a job" might be a good idea.
What do you think about Kourtney's list?
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I think Kourtney is a control freak. She wants Scott to stop taking guy trips but she isn't sitting around the house is she? Last season of Kim and Kourtney take NY, she laid into him for going to Canada with Kris Humphries. When did she lay into him? When she got home from a trip with Kim. WTF sense does that make?
I'm not really sure why she is with him. They have been going to couple's therapy since she was pregnant with Mason, or just after he was born. Isn't the point of couple's thereapy to get to a point where you don't need it? If they need continuous couple's therapy after this long, maybe it isn't meant to be. And if you feel the need to make a list for your partner....why are you having kids with him?
I agree with the first poster...she is a control freak. I think, and of course this is my opinon, that her insistance on therapy is not to make their relationship better, but to have a way to get him in a room and tell him all the things he needs to do to stay with her. But what sacrafices is she making? WHat is he asking of her and is she willing to do it, or does she feel like she is perfect with no need to change?
...they don't even share a bedroom. Except for brief 'mergers' obvs.
They are both poor examples of parents.
Both people engaged in having a baby should be on the same page. They both have to agree that the child they are having is #1. From what it looks like they both are too into themselves to give enough time to the child. She might be a little bit more into the child than he is. But how much time does she really spend with the child if she is working on her show, clothing store, other ventures, and working on herself. They both have enough money. They really don't have to work. I have my wife at home full time with the children, and we don't have anywhere near the money these people have. I really hope nobody looks to them as examples of good parenting.
the K family loves attention, good or bad..
Kourt knew who he was .. i truly despise women who KNOW going in what kind of guy they are gettin involved with and then later wanna change the rules on the guy It is such B*&^S(*&^!! you know who he was and what he did, he made no efforts to put you first at any point, you cant change him now... deal with it or move on to someone who treats you the way you deserve... that is for EVERY girl who thought that bad boy would change for THEM.. gimme a freeken break..
on the plus side, the attention sure makes for better ratings...