15 Foolproof Ways to Impress His Friends and Capture His Heart

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So you got the guy. Finally. He's awesome, sweet, caring, and all you could ask for. Hell, he could be The One. Before you meet his family, you have your first test: his friends.

A guy listens to what his friends say about his girl.

Here are some ways for you to impress his friends and win his heart for good.

 

1) Be open to hanging out with the friends. Suggest it, even.

2) When you're out, don't be all over your guy. It's awkward and uncomfortable for his friends.

3) Talk to his friends. About anything. This can solidify your place as "one of the gang."

4) Laugh. Guys love to make girls laugh, whether or not they're dating the girl. A guy appreciates knowing he can make a girl giggle.

5) Bring your friends with you. Guys love meeting new chicks, so round up some of the girls for a night out with the guys.

6) Suggest a fun group activity like bowling or playing mini golf. Great way to bond with his posse while having hella fun.

7) Don't start a fight. Doesn't matter if the dude deserves it, don't argue with your guy in front of his friends.

8) Don't complain - it's unbecoming and may make his crew feel like you're a huge bitch (even if you're not).

9) Don't dis your dude to his friends. They're his FRIENDS. Of COURSE they're going to side with him.

10) If the guys are coming over, make some dude food. Or suggest that you go out for dude food. Pizza, snacks, beer: the quickest way to win guys over.

11) Be yourself. You don't need to become someone completely different just because you're hanging out with the guys.

12) Throw some parties at your place (or the place you share with your guy) and invite his friends.

13) Be friendly, NOT flirty. Flirting with your guy's pals is a HUGE turn-off, both to his friends and to your guy. He needs to know he's coming home with YOU.

14) Sit down and watch the game with them (if you're invited). Guys love a girl who likes sports. You don't have to fake enthusiasm, just watch it.

15) Don't tag along on Guy's Night. Your guy needs his time and space, just like you. So let him have his night off and don't get all butt-hurt about it.

What are some other ways to impress his friends?

 

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Melis... Melissa042807

While my husband and I were dating, I came over to his apartment one evening and made him and his roommate brie-stuffed french toast. Roommate decided I was okay after that. :-)

nonmember avatar zizzler

"Bring your friends with you. Guys love meeting new chicks, so round up some of the girls for a night out with the guys."
Does this mean women only have female friends? What if some of his friends are gay? Or yours are lesbians, for that matter? Not trying to nitpick, just shuffling out some stereotypes here :D

nonmember avatar zizzler

although to be fair the rest of this article is pretty sexist too (guys like beer, pizza and sports--girls don't but you should pretend to. No one likes a woman who tells her man off when he's wrong, etc)

dexte... dexterdog

@zizzler Get a life. Seriously.

vicesix vicesix

LOL, dexterdog!

Felip... FelipesMom

zizzler has a brain! omg let's make fun of her and tell her to get a life! 


*sheesh*


Yes, this article is very sexist, and most of the advice here will only apply if you are a stereotypical girl dating a stereotypical guy. While tips like 1, 3, and 11 were insightful and helpful, most of the rest were pretty stone-age, imho.

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