8 Dating Tips EVERY Woman Should Know

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Every culture has different sets of rules they follow. Everything from how we eat to how we do our hair is subject to social rules. Nowhere is this more apparent than when it comes to dating. Now some of the advice may not apply to you, some may be laughable, and some may make you roll your eyes.

But some of these tips for women can make dating and mating so much easier. Finding and snagging Mr. Right can be as easy as following some of these helpful hints.

Here are some awesomely good dating tips for women.

1) Men love elusive women. Try not to reveal too much information at once. Don't tell him your life history, your blood type, the last time you had a bowel movement -- just keep him wondering about you.

2) No matter what your salary, try to look great wherever you are. You never know when that special guy is hanging out just around the corner.

3) No matter how tempting, don't discuss old boyfriends and lovers. Especially their prowess in bed. Most men are visual thinkers, so if you launch into a discussion of a past sex life, he's bound to be imagining you having sex with another guy. Not cool.

4) Don't come across as needy or desperate. It's easy to want to cling to someone you really, really dig, but most guys will turn and run if you become the clingy girl.

5) Likewise, if the guy you're seeing turns out to be a clingy emotional vampire? Don't be afraid to dump his ass. You need a guy calling you every five seconds like you need a hole in your head.

6) You don't have to wait for him to come to you -- go ahead, approach that hottie at the end of the bar. You're hot, you know it, so why not flaunt it?

7) Don't ever, EVER knock his mother. She can be the most hellish woman on the planet, but if you want to date, simply smile and nod when he mentions his mom.

8) Try to act as much like a lady as possible on the first few dates. Leave poop jokes, farting, burping, and other indelicate actions at the door. You want to come across as a lady, not as a guy with boobs.

What dating tips do YOU have to offer other women?


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Susie19 Susie19

Ladies, Playing a little hard to get and being a total bitch are two different things and most guys don't like bitches.  Just sayin.  :)

Yoana08 Yoana08

Delicious ...

And i want..

Ari. Ari.

Don't listen to others advice, you are your own person, do what's best for you and be yourself.

Felly... FellyScarlett

Haha, but I practically am a dude with boobs! And if he doesn"t like it I don't want him :)

the4m... the4mutts

Here's a tip: don't listen to tips posted on thestir. Be yourself. If you fake it You're likely to get dumped for tricking him into thinking you're someone that you're not.

The right man for you, will love you, no matter how much ex bf drama, bowel movements, and fart jokes you talk about.

nonmember avatar rick

FACT:Playing hard to get does NOT work.Yeah go ahead and put off the signal that you're not interested in him and then watch him move on to the next one.Playing games is childish drivel.Be upfront about your intentions it will NOT be seen as 'too aggressive' by MOST guys.

nonmember avatar Motown

How about dating tips FOR MEN FROM WOMEN?!
Let's be fair. Why is it always what men want, need, etc.? How about what women want, men just act like babies! This is the 21st Century, not 1950!! We are equal!! (Actually, we still do more than men, like house work, child care, parent care. Think about it. I'm so tired of articles re: men and their precious needs!!

nonmember avatar Joseph

As a man stumbling onto this article, I could tell this article was written by a woman without even looking. I knew because of tip #1 - it's a common woman mistake. The only kind of guy that likes an elusive woman is the kind that lets you down. That guy needs "the chase". He's after the thrill of getting you, not the thrill that is you. A real man (you know... the type you want) doesn't play games. I agree that I don't want to know about your bowel movements but I do want to know about you. You think it's "playing hard to get" but to us, it's being a bitch. At best, you seem disinterested. The other 7 tip are good but #1 is the common stupid mistake among women.

Julia Stella

I always love it when I'm making out with a guy and he does this ;) http://howtofixstuff.blogspot.ca/2012/01/how-to-kiss-and-make-out.html

nonmember avatar Two Of Us

In this day and age, it is "normal" for a woman to pursue a man. Women, go for what you want- the worst you can hear is "no".

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