5 Sure Signs He's Into You

Love & Learn 30

Dating and mating are SO much work sometimes! The guesswork of whether or not the guy you're crushing on is crushing on you back can leave you spiraling around, second-guessing his every interaction, trying to understand if he's actually into you.

Well, ladies, I'm here to help.

Here are some sure signs (from actual guys) that he's into you.

He bothers to call. I don't know how many times I sat by my phone (well before I had a cell phone), just waiting for the guy I was certain was in love with me to call. He didn't. I don't know how many excuses I made for him. And the next one. And the next one. They all had a "reason" in my head that they didn't call. You know what? That's bullshit. Any guy who wants to call you will call you. End of story.

He wants you to meet other people in his life. Maybe it's his friends. His roommate. His boss. His coworkers. His dog. Everyone. If he wants you to meet everyone from his mom to the guy who works at the convenience store below his apartment, he digs you.

He remembers all the quirky little things you say. When you hang out, he recalls that this one time you said you loved George Michael, and makes mention of it. Paying attention to small details like that is something dudes do when they like you.

He's looking at you -- a lot. You catch him looking at you. Watching you from across the room. Seeing the way you brush your hair from your forehead. He keeps his eyes on you. A guy who digs you wants to watch what you do, all the time.

He does things your way. It's your favorite diner. Your favorite coffee. Your favorite music on the stereo. If he's paying attention, he knows how you like things done and makes sure to do them that way.

What are some other sure signs that he's into you?


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nonmember avatar Mike M

He's honest, respectful, caring, loving, compromising, compassionate, selfless, accepting, forgiving, non-judgmental, patient, etc. Those are some qualities/characteristics I can think of right now.

the4m... the4mutts

I like these. They certainly put certain behavior into perspective!

MamaL... MamaLioness2012

He strives to be better for you...just like the movie as good as it gets "you make me want to be a better man". When DF and I started dating he stopped whining about everything like he used to before me. People who knew him before me say that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him.

val.i... val.in.cali

He will watch lifetime with you. Seriously thats love.

doubl... doubledsmommy

I have found that men who are into you will want to spend every waking moment with you.

squee... squeekysmom

When he shows you the things that he hasn't shared with anyone else like the gravestones of loved ones and the favorite places he hung out as a teenager.

nonmember avatar Toopy

He does the little things to make you smile-just b/c making you smile is all he ever really wants to do... :(

Andrea Francione Savoy

This would be great, if it were true...I've had guys do ALL 5 things, and then disappear after the first or second date...it's no guarantee they're into you LOL...NEXT!

nonmember avatar AJ

This is some great info for the ladies! Unfortunately there are some guys out there who do well at acting and breaking hearts. These are good signs to watch out for over the course of time. I know when I'm really drawn to a lady I will do everything I can to make things work as well as let her into my world.

Colon... Colonels_wife

When he say "OURS"  about his stuff even thou you didnt spend a penny.  Not like other men out there who just say,  "MY HOUSE...MY CAR...MY DOG...MINE..MINE..MINE". 

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