The 8 Best Female Erogenous Zones

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A slow, loving touch can easily send you from normal to turned-on in a few seconds. But did you know how incredible it is to have your erogenous zones stimulated?

I know, I know. The "erogenous zone" sounds like some sort of fantasy world where you have a yacht, three steam rooms, a vault filled with golden coins, and a sexy pool guy at your beck and call. So let's demystify the erogenous zones once and for all.

So, what are erogenous zones? They're parts of our body that respond best to sexual stimulation. Awesome.

Here are the top erogenous zones for women. Go ahead and give this article to your partner as a primer to really knock your socks (and clothes) off.

1) Inner thighs -- A woman's inner thighs are extremely sensitive to touch because they're chock full of nerve endings. Just be careful not to bite this area -- it hurts!

2) Nape of the neck -- Something as simple as your lover's breath on your neck is often enough to get goosebumps all over your body. It's why so many massages lead to a romp in the bedroom.

3) Ears -- Having our ears kissed, licked, sucked, or whispered into is always a huge turn-on.

4) Foot fetish -- A lot of us love having our feet massaged. Some of us even love having our feet licked or sucked (assuming, of course, that our feet are clean). The next time your guy wants to have sex, suggest he start with a foot massage. See what happens!

5) Wrists -- This may seem like a weird idea, but bear with me. If you've never had your wrists nuzzled and kissed by your lover, you're missing out.

6) Breasts -- It's not surprising to learn that many of us have very sensitive breasts and nipples. Breasts are full of nerve endings so a gentle squeeze, caress, or kiss can send us over the edge.

7) Vagina and clitoris -- Most women find the gentle stimulation of the vagina and clitoris (sometimes together!) to be one of the biggest turn-ons. If your man is having trouble in this area, just let him know how you like it best.

8) Lips -- There's nothing better than a good, old-fashioned make-out session. Women LOVE having their lips kissed, teased, sucked, and bitten. A great make-out session often leads to so much more.

Now, these zones are a little different for everyone -- for instance, not all women love to have their feet licked (it makes me want to scream, and not with pleasure) -- but it's a good start. Pretty soon, you'll be having the best sex of your life.

What other parts of the body do you find to be absolute turn-ons?


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hotrd... hotrdumommy

My back. My husband will give me a massage and then run his fingertips lightly up and down my back.

Eques... EquestrianMom

I'm with hotrdmommy, my back! Especially my lower back. Another one, my stomach! Gives me goosebumps :)

nonmember avatar H

For me all of those apply (not the licking feet tho! lol) but also the inner elbow is a massive turn on, my husband just has to gently rub or kiss there and OMG sparks are flying! lol ;) also having the scalp/Hair massaged, this is true for both men and women (or at least both of us!)

nonmember avatar redsunshine

Lower back...makes me purr,literally.

nonmember avatar Jana

The back of the boyfriend can kiss there ONE time and Im ready to go!

nonmember avatar Tyee Cambron

Thanks for the tips of the lower back. I did not know that. Me being a guy, I like my upper back. It is all tense and tight from hard work in construction.

nonmember avatar Rebecca

its funny because I hate all of the above, i love having my back touched as lightly as possible all the way up to my neck and having my head massaged...maybe im just broken

Ron Baldridge

women carry alot of tension in their back .pressure points on each side of the lower back.the small of the back on a woman is sensitive, the spine.

Sabri... Sabrinamama4806

everything except the wrist and toes. my fiance is amazing at all except those two! 

Andrea Piers

hip bones and hand wrist!

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