Thinking About Cheating? This Will Snap You Out of It (VIDEO)


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JoAnn from Bensonhurst talks cheating
Practically every city has had its own Real Housewives cast by now -- dishing dirt and drama galore. But if any of you Bravo junkies out there are looking for a reality TV reality check, look no further than JoAnn From Bensonhurst on CafeMom Studios' YouTube channel. Like most of the Real Housewives, this mom from Brooklyn is a total spitfire, but unlike them, she's also totally -- and I mean completely, 100 percent -- REAL. As in, she's like your best friend who tells it like it is and isn't going to let you off the hook when you come to her with something that's absolutely ridiculous.

Recently, JoAnn took on the topic of cheating, and if you ever questioned whether talking on Facebook means you're being unfaithful or whether you should "even the playing field" by cheating on your hubby if he cheats on you, answers await you in JoAnn's warm and cozy Bensonhurst home.

Here's the totally entertaining, completely hilarious, and also quite educational ep:

Haaaa. AMAZING, right? Don't you wish you were personally BFFs with JoAnn so she could go after any cheater you know (even if that's you!) and give 'em a good verbal smack like, "Whatsa matta wit you?! Your life's going down the toilet! Snap out of it!!" (a la Moonstruck).

This video is FILLED with that kind of straight talk that, sometimes, we really need to hear. I actually prefer her brand of to-the-point, no-nonsense advice! Because you know it's true: We can talk ourselves into or out of anything we want in love. From "Oh, he's not cheating, he's just going through a mid-life crisis ..." to "But it was just one flirty conversation on Facebook chat." Uh-huh. Suuuuure. But there's no more BS-ing yourself or allowing yourself to be BS-ed if you listen to JoAnn! No siree -- this woman tells it like it is. It's a good wake-up call, huh?

Do you agree with JoAnn's advice on cheating? Have you ever been in one of the situations she describes?

Want to get more of JoAnn From Bensonhurst? Check out her new video series on the CafeMom Studios YouTube Channel! A new episode will appear every Monday, but you can subscribe right there in case you forget!

Image via CafeMomStudios/YouTube

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gen791 gen791

LMAO, I love her voice, I have some friends from back east, and could listen to em bitch all day long!!! Shes freaking awesome!!!

aclai... aclaire11

This just made my day.  So accurate, especially the part about divorce now-a-days.  When did it become that the happily married couples are the ones with the plauge??  

MrsKi... MrsKillpeople

HAHAHAHAHAHA!! I loved this!! So refreshing. Some salt of the earth advice! All of it is so very true, and I especially loved the part where she tells you to catch your husband cheating so you have one up on him. I totally agree.... =)

Saphi... SaphiraJFire

HAHAHA OMFG! she is a freaking riot! everyone needs afriend like her omfg she is so freaking funny I am almost in tears!

nonmember avatar Denise

LOVE IT!!!!! My husband had an emotional affair, and I am TOTALLY milking it!!! However, a friend's husband had a physical affair, and not because he wasn't getting any at home. They were active several times a week, and by her account, it was fabulous; she is gorgeous and physically fit; and his affair partner was butt ugly. So great sex won't always prevent cheating. I don't really know what will. But Joanne is awesome!

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