Taking a break is one of the most challenging, frustrating, and saddening parts of a relationship. No one wants to feel as though their relationship has failed or that they themselves have somehow failed. But sometimes, a break is necessary. Not only is it necessary, sometimes, it's a good thing.
Here are eight signs that it's time to take a break from your current relationship.
1. You don't talk anymore. Do you spend time talking -- really talking -- with your partner, or do you resort to talking about the weather (or other trivial stuff) only? When you've stopped really communicating, it's time to take a break.
2. You don't spend time together. Movie night has been replaced with "guys' night." Dates are a thing of the past. Trying to pin your partner to even hang out together is like nailing Jello to the wall. If your partner does not want to spend time with you (or the reverse), it's time to take a break.
3. You fight all the time. Sure, some amount of fighting is normal in relationships. Relationships (no matter WHAT others say) are hard work. But if fighting becomes the only interaction you two have, it's time to take a break.
4. You don't have sex. Sex is a very important part of any relationship. It helps bond you to your partner, and provides a sense of intimacy. No sex = a problem. It's time to have a (gentle) conversation about it or take a break.
5. You sleep in separate bedrooms. Very few couples can survive living in separate bedrooms for very long. It's not healthy, and very little good can come of it.
6. Your relationship has more bad than good. Yes, relationships are hard. Yes, they all have unique challenges. But when you can estimate that your relationship has more bad than good, it's time to take a break and reassess how the relationship is really working for you.
7. You think about breaking up -- a lot. Once you start thinking about life without your partner often, and it doesn't make you weep, it's time to reevaluate why you two are together in the first place.
8. You're not happy. Your partner isn't happy. Happiness, my friends, is worth a lot. If your relationship doesn't make you happy and fulfilled, it's time to take a break.
What about you? What are some signs that you know it's time to take a break from a relationship?
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I've seen alot of these comments that say it means you should work on your relationship if any of these apply to you, but what if you have tried everything to fix it and it just makes things worse. I'm getting divorced because of all these things that I just couldn't fix. I didn't just give up, I realize that no amount of me trying to fix things was going to work. You can't do it alone.
This is a good concise list. I appreciate it, it seems very evident but when one is in a negative relationship, sometimes what should seem clear becomes clouded.
It seems to me that these people don't have a clue. When most people get married it is in some sort of religious ceremony with a promise to love, honor and cherish until death do us part. When I made that promise, it was not only to my husband to be, but to God. You don't just break a promise like that because you are unhappy. I have not been happy for most of our 33 years but I have three beautiful daughters that I wouldn't have if I had just turned my back on my promise. People say you can not let your children be your life, well mine are and I enjoy every minute with them and my grandchildren now. If I had it to do all over again it would depend. If I went back and knew that I would not have my children, I would do the same all over again to be with my children, but if I went back only knowing the marriage to my husband and not my children, than, yes..I would change my life and my choice in husbands. Life is not all about making sure of your own happiness, life is giving and sometimes that means sacrificing your life for the whole, like my daughters. People should take the time to realize that marriage is a life long commitment...not a one night stand.