If only we could peek into the minds of our significant others and see what they really think of us. Oh wait, maybe not. Either way, it would be nice if our dates came with Magic 8 Balls or Ouija boards to help decipher their behavior, wouldn't it?
Sometimes, we simply have to guess at what our significant other is thinking, which can be particularly difficult at the start of a relationship when you're just getting to know each other.
So let's decode what he means and figure out if he's in love with you! Here are 10 signs that he's in love with you. Yes you!
1. He smiles at you. Not just when he's trying to get some.
2. He talks to you for a long, LONG time. Guys aren't usually big talkers ... until they find someone they care about.
3. He cuddles you up. When a guy doesn't love a girl, he won't cuddle her up. When he does, you know there's something there.
4. He genuinely cares about you. He wants to know all about you, your likes and dislikes, your favorite dinner, what makes you laugh.
5. He goes out of his way for you. That extra mile is nothing if it makes you happy.
6. Those quirks you find annoying, well, he thinks they're awesome. So what if you hate that you go crazy without having enough hand-soap, or have a Diet Coke habit worthy of an intervention? He thinks you're great just as you are.
7. The chemistry is incredible. You're both on the same page, you think alike, and when you're together, the heat is incredible.
8. He loves spending time with you. It doesn't matter what you're doing, so long as you're together.
9. He'll compromise for you. Sure, you both want things your own way, but suddenly, he's willing to cave on things that once mattered.
10. He starts making plans for the future. With you.
How do you know that your significant other loves you?
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Comments 49
Great I found him .. :-))))
After 22 years of marriage and together 24+ years, it's nice to answer yes to these questions, as well as the list jaxmadre provided. Though I would like to add one more : You become disabled and he takes care of your every need and HELPS you rather than so many who will go out and cheat or even leave you. Sometimes when we women fight with our guys, we wonder if we made the right choice - I think it's human nature especially when it's a BIG fight. Obviously from the list and Jaxmadre's list as well, I 100% have a husband truly in love with me even after 25 years and 8 children. (9 including our going through a stillbirth 17 years ago). We've been through A LOT together, our marriage has been tested in so many ways that many couples would have split MANY years ago. If indeed this list is accurate, I KNOW I can depend on our love lasting that "till death do you part." What a GIFT and a really GREAT feeling!!
ONE more thing I would like to add, especially to the MANY young wives here, as I believe that we "older" wives here are far fewer than the younger wives - actually I have children the age of most wives here! Please remember this: There is no i in team, and a married couple is indeed a team. You WILL 'lose' arguements. he's human too so he'll make mistakes - I used to think mine was "perfect" but once married and you know each other better, there WILL be conflict..anyway my MAIN advise is TALK!! TALK about everything, talk through every problem big or small affecting every area of your lives. People will tell you (wrongly!!) that sex is THE most important thing in a marriage - it is NOT. Important, yes, the TOP thing NO. COMMUNICATION is the # 1 thing in a sucessful marriage. We all want forever, and my first marriage failed because we rarely if ever talked about anything (one reason). But I have learned this time just how important that is. When you fight, not only talk about it, but think back to what brought you together to marry each other in the first place. Too many young marriages fail because of lack of communication and also after marriage, couples stop respecting each other. Pleases and thank yous should still remain and surprisingly, I have seen this gone in so many friends' marriages. So there's my 'old lady' wife advice of the day Lol I wish you all forever love!
He LOVES ME!!