Do these women want your man?If you think your man is more likely to cheat at a bachelor party than anywhere else, think again. It's actually the wedding where your man is most likely to stray, especially if you aren't there. And after my wedding 8.5 years ago, I believe it.
The news comes after IllicitEncounters.com surveyed 2,000 cheating men and found that one third of them had cheated at a wedding where they had gone solo. So if you have ever sent your man to a friend's wedding alone, just hope he didn't do more than you know!
Here are the places men are most likely to cheat:
- Wedding: 32 percent
- Bachelor party: 27 percent
- Office Christmas party: 21 percent
- School reunion: 9 percent
Meanwhile, women thought their partner was most likely to cheat at these places:
- Office Christmas party: 37 percent
- Bachelor party: 35 percent
- School reunion: 17 percent
- Wedding: 11 percent
So, ladies, your men have picked the perfect place to cheat! It's the place you would never suspect. Grrr ... it makes sense, right? Weddings are the perfect pick-up place. People are in from out of town, they get close fast, drink together all night, and celebrate love.
So what is the answer? Here's what: Don't let your man go alone to a wedding! Seriously. Even if you totally trust your man, like I do. At my own wedding, there were more illicit hookups than one can even imagine. Though I won't reveal names, I wasn't all that thrilled with most of them.
Remove the temptation. Trust me on this. Get on that plane with your hubs or both of you stay home. You will be happy you did!
Would you let your man go to a wedding alone?
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Comments 42
you know...its almost 2012 and women cheat too..i hate these articles that make women look desperate and dumb, and men like players..
ITA agree with Heather. If he wants to cheat, he'll cheat.
If your husband wants to cheat, he will cheat regardless of where he is or how much you follow him around. Instead marry a man with a moral compass and self control.
I think we are all being silly. This was a survey taken by cheating men. Then men who took it either were already cheating, or thinking about cheating on their SO's.
So, if you trust your man, then you trust your man! Just because he is at a wedding alone does NOT mean he is going to cheat, simply because it is the number one place that CHEATING men would cheat.
Sorry to hear that you are so untrusting of your husband, Sasha. Sounds like you have bigger problems.
As for my answer: Yes. I would let my husband go to a wedding alone...and I have. Did I ever even question whether or not he cheated on me? No. We actually have a loving, trusting relationship (12 years and counting).
What about company bowling Leagues? I have seen an equal number of men and women cheat at company bowling leagues in almost 20 years of bowling in them. Some people just can't handle the a night out without the little woman and the liquor! Donna
Sorry, in the above post I meant spouse instead of the 'little woman' as it seems the folks I have seen cheating is equal in both sexes. Donna
Of course I would let him go alone. The only time he has gone alone has been when he is officiating the wedding and doesn't stay at the reception for very long. Otherwise, he doesn't even like going to weddings alone. So, not worried about him cheating, anyway.
If my husband were the type to cheat, I would not go with him to prevent it. I would dump him. Plain and simple. If he's going to cheat, he doesn't deserve me. That said, mine never goes any where, so this is a non-issue for me.
He wouldn't go without me. It would be more likely that I would go without him (he works a lot), and I will NOT cheat on him.