One of the Most Detested Sex Acts Is Good for Women


I've always been a swallower. As a child, I swallowed anything the vacuum cleaner failed to pick up. Crayons. Paper. Nose boogers. Nothing felt dirty or wrong, even if the look on my mother's face told me otherwise. It wasn't until I started giving blow jobs that I thought about what I swallowed. I had given up breast milk long before then, and the idea of swallowing something out of someone else's body felt odd. But anything feels strange until you get used to doing it.

There's a lot of chatter over the age old sex debate, to spit or swallow, but when it comes to decisions, this is an easy one. If you love your partner and can muster up enough strength to take one for the team, take one for the team. Not only do guys love it when women swallow -- something about the whole completion thing -- but there are actually measurable benefits to swallowing, too. 

1. Semen can boost your mood. Sure, this study had to do with intercourse, but if the hormones in semen, mainly testosterone and estrogen, make women happy when they screw, why wouldn't they make women happy when they swallow? Going on that theory, swallowing can make you happier. So next time the kids are screaming for SpongeBob, think about the benefits of another type of bob. The head bob. 

2. Semen does a body good, pass it on. That's right, semen may be a cure for sore throats and diabetes! The next time you eat too much sugar and worry about your insulin levels, balance it out with a little semen (and, of course, talk to your doctor). If you lose your voice shouting at the kids for fighting, protect your throat with semen. These are only some of the possible medical benefits for semen. I can only imagine what else science will uncover about swallowing. Perhaps it's the cure for world hunger? 

3. Semen can taste good. Like French fries or fruit, it all depends on what he eats. When you're looking for a filling snack, why not a little love juice? It's high in protein and only 20 calories per teaspoon. And when he eats celery, cranberries, watermelon, and drinks pineapple juice, he'll taste even juicer. 

4. And for those who can't get themselves to swallow, fear not. You should feel good knowing that a little semen on your face may do wonders for your skin. According to The Sexual Teachings of the White Tigress, semen facials are good for you. And in her memoir, I'm Wild Again, even Helen Gurley Brown recommends the semen facial: "Spread semen over your face, [it's] probably full of protein as sperm can eventually become babies. Makes a fine mask — and he'll be pleased."

Do you prefer to spit or swallow?

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nonmember avatar Bob I Did It

GREAT POST BUZZY!! It is not about keeping score. My question to other men, although you have gone down on her, have you ever tasted yourself to see how it compares?? As my name says "I did it" and trust me, I totally understood why my wife didn't want to taste it or swallow it. Seriously, have you ever tasted your own semen as it really is not even close to what she makes. Realize, as I did, she doesn't make sperm or semen, their juices are something totally different. I repeat too, love doesn't keep score. I sure don't. I love my wife and want to keep her happy and we found other ways to have fun without her eating it or going down on me for extended times. I mean it, try it just once and see if you like the taste or if it is the same as what she tastes like. “bob I did it”

nonmember avatar Kayla Newton

I am with Buzzy totally. I think I should get oral and orgasm and then the guy walk out the door and let me roll over and go to sleep. That is what we get so that is what they should do for us in return. lol I love it.

nonmember avatar Jboris

Good post Buzzy!! I am right there with ya.

nonmember avatar Philbert

From a guy: Ladies, it is personal preference; however, if done properly Oral Sex can be more pleasurful than the Vajayjay. As many women will atest to Oral being better for Orgasm than penile penetration. My personal oppinion is that to have a sexually healthy relationship you must be open, upfront and honest. Plus don't bait and switch if you do something at the first of the relationship you better keep doing it, otherwise you are creating a dissapointment that will grow over time.

Gerrenn Jennings

This is real. This is NOT NEW. In Europe it has been popular for many years...... You can buy it in a jar for your face.... Seriously......

nonmember avatar Steve Devereaug

Okay, not trying to be totally gross here, but there are countries that eat placenta as well. Just because one place does it doesn't mean it is an excuse to make others do something folks. Just sayin, it IS a personal preference. I agree it can be sensual, but if it is not for one then that person shouldn't be made to do it. What kind of person are you that you can get off while the other is not?? I also do agree that there should be no bait and switch. Don't do it then stop and complain. If any man is 'holding out' just for a swallower, I wish you luck in your endeavor. Seriously, you may be alone a long time as not many do it. You are on the internet here and anyone can say and be anything they wish to be. In reality not any of my friends wives eat it, nor do they want to. We had one that said he got it for his b-day and anniversary only. Guess what, they are still HAPPY. Happiness is not all about one sex act that serves one person alone.

Whiskerrss Page

i love women that swallow my cumm

nonmember avatar Monty

As a man, the first thing that I would like to say is that there are things that a woman can do with her mouth that a vagina can't even come close to. I am in my forties and the most incredible orgasms that I have had in my life have been from BJs. I was a bachelor until just recently and I can't tell you how many women have told me that they don't suck cock, much less swallow, and all of them ended up drinking from my fountain. If you treat a woman right and blow her mind in bed, they want to do the same for you. I don'tthink that is selfish at all. My wife rocks my world like no one else ever has and I couldn't tell you how disappointed I would be if she stopped doing what I really like. All of you women who do what a guy likes in bed until you get married and don't do it any more, that is despicable. You bait and switchers deserve so many of the divorces you get.

nonmember avatar Monty

We all do things that we do not like. Raising a child has so many disgusting moments involved but you do all of them because of the unconditional love you have for a child. Evidently there ARE conditions for the man who gave it to you for some of you. Like so many have already said, there is a line of people ready to give your man what you refuse to. Many men are very sexual beings. Just because you don't like to do something it doesn't mean that they won't get it. Believe me, once you have had the best in bed you won't settle for "I don't like it" for the rest of your life. Sad for some to hear but it is still true...

nonmember avatar Scott NOTjerk

Monty, so if your wife that blows your mind asked you to eat your semen out of her after you came would YOU DO IT?? I want to know seriously. If you think you have a 'fountain' and it is so great why do you not give oral back and suck your own semem right out of her??? Would you jack off on her boobs and eat it there?? I seriously think you won't. I am betting your full of crap with the 'fountain' thing, that is what told me you are full of it. NO ONE SHOULD BE MADE TO DO WHAT THEY DON'T WANT TO DO!! Plain and simple. Sex is not all about one, and I agree, if both get something fine. Pressuring someone with threats of divorce or cheating just shows what a callous loser that person is. There is a LINE OF MEN waiting to treat that woman right if you want to be a pushy pig, trust me on this. There are all kinds of things a vibrator can do that a MAN cannot. Stating that oral should replace regular sex so you get what you want and she is a servicing machine is just WRONG. I am glad I am a man NOT like you. I am glad not all men are like you either. Many women are sexual beings and should not be treated like mindless machines you use to get yourself off and nothing else.

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