10 Accidentally Sexy Things Men Do to Make Us Crazy


Bradley Cooper, the delectable star of The Hangover 2, whose very presence can give most women a quake, also speaks French. Last week he gave an interview in what appears to be near-flawless French (in my mind, so please don't ruin it by saying it wasn't). It was hot. So, so very, very hot.

It's the little things that drive us wild, and so few men get that. Foreplay is about more than grabbing at us and falling into bed. There is sometimes a little something we can't explain added to the mix, a certain je ne sais quoi. (See Bradley, I speak it, too!)

Still, some men do things without thinking that really get us going. So, to help them, here is a list of 10 other accidentally sexy things that men do that make us want them:

  1. Cook: It doesn't matter if you slow braise or make artisanal sauces (although that wouldn't be a bad thing), but knowing your way around the kitchen will make us crazy. The way to a woman's heart and all that ...
  2. Can say a man is hot: It shows you're comfortable in your sexuality to be able to recognize another man's sexiness. And that, my friends, is so very sexy to us.
  3. Good parenting: I don't mean the guy changes diapers. That is so tired (though it's also important). I mean he genuinely cares about and seeks out opportunity for the children. When he is with them, he is with them, paying attention to their needs, playing with them, and telling mom to go shopping as he wants time alone with his little babies. One mom said her husband makes up little songs for their daughter and that always makes her want to kiss him. Also when he cuddles them: HOT!
  4. Dancing: A man who can dance can also move his body in other ways, too.
  5. Building: There is something so hot about a man who can use his hands to fix things or to create things. Never am I more attracted to my husband than when he's hot and sweaty from work and has just built or created something with his bare hands.
  6. Sporty: My husband was a very good athlete in high school and went on to be a Division One Decathlete. Now, he dominates every sport he tries (even bowling!). Watching him pick everything up so quickly is insanely hot.
  7. Play an instrument: Put a guitar in a guy's hand and instantly the geekiest string bean becomes George Clooney.
  8. Tip well: Kindness is a huge turn-on, but not the kind they do to show off. It has to be real, genuine kindness, the sort that just emanates from them unconsciously.
  9. Make us laugh: Funny guys DO get the girl. Every time.
  10. Working: I once heard my husband on a conference call. He sounded so authoritative and smart and it was a context in which I rarely get to see or hear him. It made me want to jump his bones immediately.

What surprising things turn you on?


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jaxmadre jaxmadre

Watching him play with kids (other than his own). It's so sweet and SUCH a turn-on.

Also when he breathes. Yes, just him being alive makes me want him like crazy. (I've been accused of being atypically horny)

evwsq... evwsquared

He really does speak French well. He says in the interview that he spent time abroad during college on an exchange program in Aix-en-Provence and lived with a French family.

Payton Irwin

You're right on every single one of those. And Bradley Cooper speaking French? Holy heavens. That was amazing.

trishter trishter

My love is a mechanic by trade, but seeing him working on his car in his spare time is a HUGE turn-on. He loves cars, which is why he works on them for a living, but seeing his passion flare up outside of work is. . . I don't really know how to explain it. Watching him from the window as he's laying on the driveway, laughing it up with a buddy, covered in grease. . . Oh my.

Kassy Rey Gimble

My fiancee does all of that EXCEPT saying another man's hot.  He's okay admitting another dude's hotness, as long as it's not a man that I've said is hot, lol.  For instance, he stubbornly refuses to admit the undeniable yum factor of True Blood's Eric Northman.  Serious point of contention between us. =P 

nonmember avatar Oum

Well you know, he speaks very good French. I checked the video on-line ! Oh my Gosh...

nonmember avatar Sam

My love is most attractive when he's with my niece. Watching him play with her or cuddle her is just so freaking sexy! Definitely reassures me that when our time comes he's going to be a kick-ass dad.

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