New Website Outs Cheaters in Full, Disgusting Detail


I hope she was worth it carTruth be told, what, with Facebook and Ashley Madison and the Internet period, I'm kind of surprised that this hasn't been around longer. A new website,, has burst onto the scene and is a virtual dumping ground for dirty details about people who have done you wrong.

At first, when I heard about the site, I was intrigued, but not at all shocked. Big whoop, I thought. People can write posts about how their boyfriend or girlfriend slept with someone else, retribution will be had, the end. If the couple is still together, it will be a little penance for the offender. If they're not, justice will be served (and the cheater probably won't care since you're not together anyway).

Boy was I wrong! The stuff on here is bad. Like, wow-you-can-really-write-that-about-someone bad. Honestly? As creepily entertaining as this site is, I think this should be illegal.

First, when you go on the site, at the top is a "Vote for the Cheater of the Week" kind of thing, where you find two people's pictures (there are always pictures, BIG pictures), names, height, weight, other identifying information (like whether or not they have tattoos), and their story. The object, obviously, is to vote for the person with the most awful story.

This is the story for one of the candidates, Mary Anne Sawser, this week:

She's married for 13 years with an autistic daughter, 7 years of age. Her husband is an air force pilot. She goes out all the time constantly cheating on him. She hooked up with me, never said she was married. But I found out. Long story short, watch out!!!!

I know, right? I mean, clearly Mary Anne is a piece of crap, but all of her business is out there. And that's not even one of the bad ones. Look at this one:

I went out of town on business for a week and didn't think anything of it. When I came back, I went to do a load of laundry and found a USED CONDOM IN MY HAMPER.

Ugh! Gross! And that is a minor excerpt, my friends. What is happening here, people? It's too much. These cheaters definitely don't deserve to be in a relationship, but airing their dirty laundry like this (no pun intended)? Don't you feel a little icky doing it? It has everything about these people on there for all the world to see.

After spending too much time on the site for this post, I don't think I will be returning. It's so ... I feel like I need to shower after reading it. And I think it should be taken down. Yes, these people suck, but it also seems like they could get hurt from all their info being out there. Blech!

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bsawy... bsawyer84

I love reading about the human element. I'll probably take a look. It could be right up there with my daily perusings of "Texts From Last Night", "Not Always Right", "Failbook", and "The Stir" LOL

PonyC... PonyChaser

I find it deliciously ironic that one of their rotating ads is for "Karmaville"...

MomoJL MomoJL

Pnychaser, I also that that was something else!

But my opinion of the site is GET RID OF IT!  I mean, any angry little college girl can put a picture up of her "enemy" and write anything on there, right?  It's horrifying.  Especially in this day and age of potential employers using the internet to scope out job's seriously wrong.

nonmember avatar Anon

Tons of things are online and should be illegal but to be honest, I feel little sympathy for cheaters. I don't think details about their kids should be put up, that is wrong. That said,it's hard to feel bad for someone who dumps all over their spouse by screwing around on them. The moral of the story is don't be a piece of garbage and keep your pants on. Karma is a bitch.

sweet... sweetcherry_59

I am on mobile so I cant look at the site and I would need to before I can pass a judgement either way. I dont think personal details like full names, kids information, and personal info should be allowed.

Gomez... GomezMami2908

Very personal details shouldn't be allowed but everything else is fair game to me. Cheaters beware! 

Histo... HistoryMamaX3

bsawyer... your response made me snort water out my nose. Thank you for your inclusion of The Stir! lol Some of these bloggers like to think of themselves up there on a special pedestal... but many are just as guilty of writing smut and hurt-filled posts.

ellem... ellemenope

Honestly,  if you do the crime, be ready to do the time.  That said, all the identifying info (full names, city of residence, etc.) is out of line and puts the alleged cheaters at a big safety risk.  Regardless of their misdeeds, that's inexcusable.

jagam... jagamama0710

I agree that the really personal info should not be allowed but I think definitely a story and maybe a picture is appropriate. Don't wanna be on the site? Don't cheat. Pretty simple.  

1swee... 1sweetmommma

It's all about free speech here. If they can make that website illegal because of trash talking, they can do it to this one(have you SEEN how these moms pounce like hungry wolves on one person???). Be careful what you wish for because it just might come true!

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