Having vacation sex is one of the many benefits of going away alone with your husband or partner.
Vacation sex is usually great. You're away from the stresses of your everyday life. No kids, no cooking, cleaning, or working.
But what if you're staying at someone's house? Say, the house of a cousin, college friend, or even your grandparents.
Is the vacation sex going to be as good as if you were staying in a hotel?
It can be. But you have to get the lay of the land, so to speak, when you get there.
Ultimately, you shouldn't care if your hosts know that you and your husband are doing the deed. Everybody does it at some point. And they should be happy for you. I know I'm happy when my house guests get it on. Unless, of course, the guests happen to be my parents.
Plus being in the mood can be contagious. Last year, at a week long family gathering, my husband and I started a trend. He and I mysteriously disappeared for a little bit. When we returned to the public space in the house, we got a few winks and nods. Over the next few hours, the mood in the house was elevated to an unprecedented level of euphoria. Without the help of prescription drugs.
One non-negotiable rule? Please strip your own bed before you leave.
Are you uncomfortable having sex at someone else's house?
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