We all know that sex is an amazing, bonding, stress-relieving act. But sometimes life gets in the way and the distractions can be a real mood kill. Or sometimes your husband plays Xbox all night then expects you to roll over when he climbs into bed.
Perhaps your partner in the sack needs a little direction when it comes to turning your "not tonight" into an enthusiastic romp in the hay. Hand him this list that was compiled by surveying married ladies about what their other half can do to get a woman there, even when she's not in the mood.
I'm thinking we could combine a few just to make things interesting. New sex toy massage? Yes!
1. Give a massage; foot, neck, back, or any erogenous zone
2. Doing the dishes
3. Dirty talk
4. Put on some Latin music
5. Make a specialty cocktail
6. Surprise you with a sex toy
7. Make a homemade meal
8. Talk about your dreams
9. Tell you exactly what he's going to do to you, and how it will feel
10. Call the babysitter
11. Remind you why he wants you
13. Earlobe nibbles
14. Uninterrupted conversation
15. Washing his balls
16. Brushing his/her teeth
17. Pour a glass of wine
18. Compliment your body
19. Compliment your brain
20. Give a lusty stare at a crowded event where you can't do anything right at that moment
21. Turning off the TV/cell phone/laptop
22. A subtle ass grab
23. Turn on Mad Men
24. Lightly touch you when you're talking
25. Brush up against you, and then walk away
What can your lover do to get you in the mood?
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