What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? And how does someone who married young rank against those who didn't?
I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23.
Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement.
I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) -- but this idea of "sexual bucket lists" does intrigue me.
Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single gals among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos before you die.
- Kiss a girl
- Have anal
- Have a threesome
- Engage in group sex
- Have phone sex
- Masturbate
- Use a vibrator
- Use a sex toy on someone else
- Be tied up
- Tie someone up
- Have sex in a public space
- Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)
- Sex in a car
- Sex at a drive-in
- Mile-high club
- Sex with a stranger
- One-night stand
- Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)
- Sex on a boat
- Sex in a body of water
- Light spanking
- Read erotica
- Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
- Sex in the shower
- Sex standing up against a wall
- Sex with no kissing
- Sex in the pitch black
- Sex in the broad daylight
- Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin
- Sex in a tent in the wilderness
- Watch porn together
- Watch porn alone
- Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
- Sex on the beach
- Blindfolds
- Using ice sexually
- Sexual role play
- Whipped cream
- La Perla lingerie sex
- Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex
- Sex with someone much older
- Sex with someone younger (legal!)
- Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
- A quickie in a skirt
- A longie in the rain
- Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
- Feather ticklers
- Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else
- Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
- Silent sex in a full house
How many have you done? And what's on your bucket list?
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41 ... not too shabby.
mine is about there, too:)
Yes, sex with a stranger. Everybody needs an STD! Get yours free!
ok I've got about 1/2 of those done, guess I better start working on the other 1/2 huh? LOL
42 soon to be 43 next weekend
Anal? Please. Yuck. The rectum was not designed to be a sexual orifice.
i am a 52 year old female cougar and ive honestly done 48 of them.
In college, there used to be a sexual questionnaire. It varied from 100, 250, 500, and 1000 questions. This article sounds a lot like it came from that. But really- a bedroom bucket list should have been broken into before and after marriage lists. As the writer indicates, checking off some of these can lead to a much closer marriage. Have safe fun, anyway you decide to start your list.
Sick Sick Sick..who is thinking this stuff?? It's not fun or safe...those who've done most of it, I'm sure you have STD's!!
Geez pull your heads out of your asses. It was just for fun. And if your careful, your a lot lot less likely to get std's so as long as you aren't stupid about it, these are all mostly safe. Stupid naive prudes.