Sex Secret: My Husband and I Made a Sex Contract

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Disagreement over sex
Locking horns over lovemaking?
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This Week's Confession:
After the birth of our first child, my libido plummeted. Things went from bad to worse in my relationship, and my husband was accusing me of abandoning him. So I made a sex agreement: Twice a week, I’d do it, whether I felt like it or not. It sounds sort of brutal, but I love him and didn’t want to lose him over sex. And it turned out that once I got started, I always felt better. Pretty soon we didn’t have to schedule it anymore, and after we had our second kid, it was easier to get back on the horse. Now we have a good sex life and I’m glad we stuck to it. But I know it would have sounded pretty weird to my earlier single self. -- Anonymous

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