Flickr photo by geishaboy500When I read that Avril Lavigne and Brody Jenner were out on a date at Voyeur, the first thing I thought was, Oh my God, that's the same sex club where the Republican National Committee spends all of their money!
Honestly. That was exactly what popped into my head. It wasn't Hmmm, that's weird. Because it seems like a perfectly appropriate place to head for a date when you're in that early, can't-get-enough-of-it stage with a partner. Or even if you're in that we-really-need-a-spark stage.
I realize that not every town in America has a sex club that caters to a higher class of people (rather than the dollar bill in the crotch kind), and that naturally means most women aren't heading into that unhygienic, pole-populated joint on date night. What's sexy about spending time with your new paramour where topless women with fake boobs are being ogled by neanderthals?
But if you're comfortable, your partner is comfortable, and you're both completely turned on by the idea -- head to the lounges, the clubs, the hot spots that aren't about degradation and are about arousal. For both men and women.
If you find yourself up for a night of erotic meanderings, look for local listings that focus on cabaret, burlesque, or couples to make sure you don't wind up on the wrong side of the plexiglass.