Sex Secret: I Slept With My Cousin!


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Everyone has a dirty little secret and this is a safe place where we can share them (anonymously, of course). Go ahead, spill. We won't tell. (No, this isn't me! I said it was anonymous -- my lips are sealed!)

This Week's Confession:
When I was in my early 20s, I moved to a new city and my mom suggested I look up a long-lost cousin, the product of an uncle's affair who my family had never met. I did. He was in his 30s and there was an instant attraction. Before you could say "kissing cousins," we were having the most amazing sex -- and had a crazy affair for two years before guilt finally made me cut it off.  I guess everyone has a crazy affair in their 20s, but the fact that mine was with a relative makes me feel so weird about it. I have no photos of that time and have never told my husband. Or my mom, obviously! There's no point regretting it because it's done. It's more like it feels like it happened to someone else. --anonymous


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kelli... kelli0585

Aw, man! Some things are just never meant to be shared. . . not even in an anonymous confession website. Barf.

Lokis... LokisMama

Heh, the taboos that people still cling to make me giggle.

kelli... kelli0585

Eh. I can get past a stepbrother, foster sibling, in-laws or heck. . .even a 4th cousin once removed (or however that works.)
But your uncle's son? Assuming that this wasn't an uncle by marriage, the blood still runs pretty thick. You share the same grandparents. If that's a giggle-worth taboo, consider me a guard at the London Tower. . .because I'm not laughing.

toria... toriandgrace

Ok ew. Infidelity with a cousin? And not EVERYONE has a crazy affair in their 20s.

momav... momavanessa

Okay grossssss!!!! I am in my 20s and married I have NEVER had a Crazy affair!! It must be just you.

Tikki... TikkiNippets

Im in my 20s too and I have only been with my husband so I dont know what your talking about and that is just plain nasty

pats360 pats360

I guess if this confession makes you feel better than go ahead and tell.  It's not normal, a relationship that that.

moniq... moniquinha

I'm willing to bet at least half of you here condemning this chick are people who believe in the bible and that we all came from Adam and Eve, which means people had sex with their brothers and sisters so that we could all be here. Oh...but that was okay, right? b/c God commanded it. Give me a small break. She's obviously not proud of what she did, which is why she's confessing to it anonomously. Get off your high horses.


nonmember avatar Jay

My cousin and I had a lovers affair that started when she was 19 and I was 23.  It went on for years....  I have never had hotter, nothing-held-back lust sex.   

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