Faking Orgasms: Have You?

faking orgasmLet me start by saying that all women are different when it comes to orgasms...and all orgasms are different, too. Some are intense, while others are quiet -- and this can be said about both women and the Big O, right?

Many women fake orgasms, right? Show of hands. Mine's up. And I can say that I've faked it for a slew of different reasons -- I've wanted to get it over with, I knew it just wasn't going to happen, I was tired....


But just because I have faked, doesn't mean that I wasn't having a good time every time. I never put on a big porno production of faking with the oooh yeahs and all that. It was more of a quiet fake. 

I've had pleasurable sex without climax. Of course, the climax does put the sex in the "oh yes I would like more of that" category. But not all women can achieve orgasm from penetration. And there's nothing wrong with that. An orgasm from oral sex, finger stimulation, and sex toys is still an orgasm.

An anonymous CafeMom asked others how many times they have faked orgasm. Answers ranged from 95 percent of the time to never.

The women who answered never wondered what was the point of faking. See above. But I do think being open and honest is always good, especially if you are in a serious relationship. You deserve that pleasure and if you can get your partner to work overtime to help you climax, why not?

Have you ever faked orgasm? I put a poll so you can answer anonymously, too.


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