13 Sexy Gifts for Partners -- Whether They've Been Naughty or Nice

Anne Meadows | Dec 16, 2016 Love & Sex


Forget the fancy bath bubbles and creams, expensive tie, flashy watch, and homemade card. This year, surprise your partner (and possibly yourself) with something that's more than just "a little suggestive." 

Although you'll want to be discreet in finding that perfect gift-giving time and place (Christmas morning in front of Grandma and the kids is an obvious no-go), your special someone will appreciate a present that's equal parts exciting and practical. A handy spray bottle of lube, innovative condoms, or slinky lingerie offer double the gift-giving punch because they promise the eventual gift of great sex. 

Hey, the kids get toys ... you should too!

  • Vesper Necklace


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    There's something so deliciously naughty about hiding a mini vibrator right in plain sight. The Vesper Necklace looks elegant in silver, rose gold, or 24kt gold plated stainless steel and has a USB port for charging on the go. This smart little stocking stuffer will look innocent enough on Christmas morning because only you and your partner will know what it's really for. 

    Vesper Necklace, from $69; Crave

  • Chakrubs Original Heart Crystal


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    Chakrubs are sexual wellness products made from crystals, created to facilitate "the body's natural ability to heal physically, emotionally, and energetically." The Original Heart is a rose quartz dildo-like object which, whether it helps you open your heart chakra or not, would be a welcome gift to any woman who wants to *ahem* get in touch with her true being. It's also gorgeous enough to display proudly on the bedside table -- you know, if that's your thing.

    Original Heart Crystal, $179; Chakrubs

  • Asos Curve Nancy Lace Underwire Set


    The Nancy Lace lingerie set from Asos Curve takes sexy to another level. The bralette straps create a trompe l'oeil effect, making the chest look even more exposed. But don't be fooled by the pretty lace -- there's plenty of support in this bra for plus-size ladies. The high-waisted panties help maintain a smooth line from rib to hip, and the fabric blocks help break up the shape to keep it from edging anywhere toward grandma-panty territory.

    Nancy Lace lingerie set, $49.50; Asos Curve

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  • Flirt Pheromone Spray


    Love potions might not exist IRL, but pheromones do. They're the scent signals that mammals (yep, you) release to attract potential sexual partners. Pure Romance's Truly Sexy Flirt is a perfume that, in addition to white rose, jasmine, lemon, and grapefruit notes, also features pheromones. So when you're feeling frisky, no need to say a word. Spritz this stuff on your focus points, and he'll get the message. Because science. 

    Truly Sexy Flirt, $59; Pure Romance

  • Wicked Sensual Lube


    Looking for a gift that could be a true revelation to both of you when it comes to oral play? Then it's time to try flavored lube. With a variety of flavors available (candy apple, mocha java, pomegranate, and salted caramel, to name a few), Wicked Sensual Care's flavored lubes are a great way to explore multiple sensations at once. 

    Sensual Care Personal Lubricants, $7.99 & up; Wicked Sensual Care

  • Hex Condoms


    As good to use as it is to look at. #HEXAPPEAL #LELO http://bit.ly/25UXUFW

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    You might not expect to find condoms at the top of your Christmas wish list, but these are no ordinary condoms. Lelo's Hex condoms get their name from their unusually shaped material -- 350 ultra-thin latex hexagons. The structure is said to allow more body heat to transfer between partners, making for a more intense sensation. Consider your stockings stuffed (pun intended).   

    Hex Condoms, $39.50 for 36 pack; Lelo

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  • Victoria's Secret Long-Sleeve Plunge Teddy


    If you want to slink around the house in something sexy but not-so-exposed, a lacy teddy might be up your alley. This long-sleeve sheer one from Victoria's Secret has a daring plunge and cute over-the-hip edging. Sometimes it's just sexier to leave a bit to the imagination.

    Long-Sleeve Plunge Teddy, $78; Victoria's Secret

  • Überlube


    Take us with you! #goodtogo

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    Überlube's measured pump ensures the right amount of lube is dispensed -- so no more goopy messes, even in the dark. The non-staining formula is latex-safe and works under water. Best of all, the little refillable case is discreet enough to throw in your gym bag, purse, or suitcase, so you can be ready to go *wink* on the go. 

    Good to Go Traveler, $14; Überlube

  • Tenga Eggs


    Tenga eggs are great little versatile toys for all sorts of uses and body parts. The inside has a ribbed texture for a titillating sensation, while the exterior is made of stretchy rubber that expands to fit whatever you might put inside of it. Whether used in solo or partner play, this disposable toy is a fun trip away from the ordinary.

    Tenga Egg, $8.50; Babeland

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  • Montelle Lingerie


    Barely-there lacy black underthings are the epitome of sexy lingerie. This sweet three-piece set from Journelle features soft, scalloped lace edging that hits that perfect note between naughty and nice.   

    Montelle Lace Demi Bra ($44), Garter Belt ($28), and Brazilian Panty in Black ($22); Journelle

  • We-Vibe Sync


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    The We-Vibe Sync is truly a gift for the two of you. It's a made-for-couples vibrator that stimulates both your G-spot and clitoris with vibrations that he can feel too. The sync stays put in one position and is adjustable for all sizes and shapes of bodies. Plus, the device can be controlled by either a remote or a smartphone app to change vibrations and intensity whether or not your partner makes it home for the holidays.

    Sync, $134; We-Vibe

  • Njoy Pure Plug


    If you're familiar with sex toys but want to explore a little more uncharted territory, the Njoy Pure Plug could be a good starting place for you. The teardrop-shaped plug has a seamless, slightly tapered end to ensure smooth entry. Since it's made with stainless steel, the plug has a hefty weight to it that seriously ups the sensation ante. Maybe have a chat with your partner, though, before springing this gift on them...  

    Njoy Pure Plug, $70-80; Babeland

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  • Lovehoney Big Box of Sexual Happiness Sex Toy Advent Calendar


    Would you open your sex toy calendar in the morning or in the evening?

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    One of the best holiday traditions is the advent calendar -- sharable fun that's brightly colored and cheery and builds anticipation for the big day. Lovehoney's "Big Box of Sexual Happiness Ultimate Sex Toy Gift Set" has a month's worth of sexual surprises for you (or your partner) to explore year-round. Just make sure the box stays out of the kids' sight unless you're ready to explain why there are handcuffs in the advent calendar. 

    Big Box of Sexual Happiness Sex Toy Advent Calendar, $150; Lovehoney

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