Rita Ora Reveals Why You'll Probably Never See Her Single

rita ora calvin harrisBefore Calvin Harris was dating Taylor Swift, he was with one of the stars of Fifty Shades of Grey, Rita Ora, who play Christian's sister Mia. Ora is also a singer (Black Widow, baby!). In an interview with Marie Claire, the lovely Ora spilled some never-before-heard details about her split from Harris and also wasn't afraid to admit that she's a serial monogamist. What?! Yes. It's about time someone addressed this.

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Serial monogamy isn't a bad thing. Some people just don't like being single. And besides, you can't exactly plan when someone comes along and knocks your socks off -- just because you just got out of one relationship, doesn't mean you should deny yourself of another.

Can you tell that I don't believe in rules here?

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Rita said:

I'm afraid of being alone. I'm not afraid to admit that, you know. I'm not embarrassed to admit that. I just hope it's not a never-ending cycle. Sometimes love just makes you feel crazy. And that feeling that we have as girls, just to have that feeling, even for five seconds, it's like crack. I mean, don't compare it to that, but you know what I mean. It's like comfort eating.

I know exactly what she's talking about. I wouldn't say I'm afraid of being alone, but I don't like it one bit. I like companionship; I love love. And yes, sometimes, that feeling of love makes you feel crazy, in a good way -- it's addicting.

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The downside is that sometimes serial monogamists find themselves in short-lived relationships. Maybe it's because that falling head over heels comes too soon, maybe we are just more romantic and so in love with love that we feel all the feelings sooner -- we aren't afraid to take risks. We know without risk there is no reward. So we dive in without fear, feeling all the feelings that comes with being in love. Sometimes it works out; sometimes it doesn't. We love, we live, we learn.

Rita's exes include Rob Kardashian, Jonah Hill, Richard Hilfiger (Tommy Hilfiger's son), and Harris. And I'm not sure how things ended with Rob, Jonah, and Richard, but there is some bad blood between Harris and Ora. (Hat tip to that Taylor Swift song.) Not only were they in love, but Rita and Calvin worked on a song together called  "I Will Never Let You Down." (Ouch, song title.) He wrote and produced it and after they split, he wouldn't let her perform it. They mixed biz with pleasure and that might not have been a good choice. When they were together, Calvin was also reportedly a bit worried that Rita was going to be showing too much skin in the movie Fifty Shades. Sounds to me that it's good they didn't last.

He's moved on (with Swift) and so has Rita. Though ... no word on who she is being monogamous with now. But she'll get no judgment from me. People should follow their heart, take chances, live ...

How do you feel about serial monogamy?

 

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