Therapist Reveals 10 Most Surprising Sex Fantasies He Hears From Men​​

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We've learned to see men as sex machines: Always ready to go, simple to operate, and always in control. But the reality could not be more different! Men are a lot less secure than we realize -- but also more complex and more hungry for emotional connection. It turns out, the answers to the question "what do men want in bed" can be very surprising for women to hear, according to sex counselor Eric M. Garrison. So, what did he tell us about men and sex?


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There are lots of articles out there discussing women and their sex drive, their fantasies, and what they do and do not want in the bedroom. But as for the guys, things seem to be a little quieter. Men are less willing to share what's up in general and when it comes to discussing their fantasies or desires...well that happens too infrequently. Eric Garrison assures us that not only do men have desires and fantasies that are more complex than one would think, they are just as insecure as we are when it comes to the finer points of getting down. So we asked Eric to give us a little insider knowledge into what men are really thinking when things get heated. 

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Take a look at the surprising facts and insights that he highlighted for us, and go forth with wisdom for the next time it's time to get busy!