Sex Confession: I Want to Be Dominated

couple kissing“Sex Confessions” is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, and all will turn you on. You might want to sit down for this.

Today's sex confession comes from a confessor who wants to be dominated. Here's what she has to say:

I'll admit that I bought into the whole Fifty Shades of Grey hype, but I am so glad I did. I think it will make my sex life a little hotter. It has certainly made my imagination hotter. I just don't know how to tell my husband without freaking him out. I want him to dominate me. I want him to come home from work, take off his tie, and use it to tie me up.


I've been having some really vivid sex dreams since finishing the first book in the Grey series. I keep thinking about what it would be like ... spanking ... being blindfolded ... completely surrendering to my husband. We've never been into any kind of kinky sex. Well, maybe a little when we were first together, but things kind of settled into a groove and our sex life is good, but it could certainly be more adventurous. I don't want to hurt my husband's feelings or make him think I'm not satisfied in the bedroom, and that's my biggest fear in telling him how I want to shake it up a bit. How I want him to ravage me as I submit to him.

After a long day with work, the kids, cooking, there really is nothing that sounds better to me than to have my man take care of me. Sexually, that is. To surrender. To be blindfolded and teased, wondering when my man will touch me and where. Waiting to feel all of him. I imagine the sensations will be greater. No, I don't want my own sex life to mirror the Grey book exactly, but there are certain things in it that really turned me on. And I really think that if my husband has an open mind about it, it will be that little spark our sex life needs. Maybe I can buy a blindfold and present him with the idea that way. We can start slow and go from there.

What advice would you give to this confessor? How would you talk to your husband about wanting to be dominated?


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