12 Sure Signs He's Into You (PHOTOS)

Aunt Becky | Feb 20, 2012 Love & Sex

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Dating and mating are SO much work sometimes! The guesswork of whether or not the guy you're crushing on is crushing on you back can leave you spiraling around, second-guessing his every interaction, trying to understand if he's actually into you.

Well, ladies, I'm here to help.

Here are some sure signs (from actual guys) that he's into you.

What are some other sure signs that he's into you?


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  • He Bothers to Call


    I don't know how many times I sat by my phone (well before I had a cellphone), just waiting for the guy I was certain was in love with me to call. He didn't. I don't know how many excuses I made for him. And the next one. And the next one. They all had a "reason" in my head that they didn't call. You know what? That's lame. Any guy who wants to call you will call you. End of story.

  • He Wants You to Meet the People in His Life


    Maybe it's his friends. His roommate. His boss. His coworkers. His dog. Everyone. If he wants you to meet everyone from his mom to the guy who works at the convenience store below his apartment, he digs you.

  • He Remembers Quirky Things You Say


    When you hang out, he recalls that one time you said you loved George Michael and makes mention of it. Paying attention to small details like that is something dudes do when they like you.

  • He Looks at You -- a Lot


    You catch him looking at you. Watching you from across the room. Seeing the way you brush your hair from your forehead. He keeps his eyes on you. A guy who likes you wants to watch what you do all the time.

  • He Does Things Your Way


    It's your favorite dinner. Your favorite coffee. Your favorite music on the stereo. If he's paying attention, he knows how you like things done and makes sure to do them that way.

  • He Knows When Something Is Bothering You


    Even when you don't say anything, he's paying attention to the way you're breathing, the way you look at him, everything. And he can tell when you're worried about something.

  • He Makes Plans With You


    He doesn't end your date with a vague "we should hang out again sometime." He makes plans. A guy who's into you wants to see you again -- and will make sure that happens.

  • He Commits Random Acts of Kindness


    He does lots of little things for you, like carrying your stuff, finding medicine for you when you have a headache, or getting you a glass of water when you're thirsty.

  • He Shares His Ups and Downs


    He tells you when something at work goes really well -- and when it goes terribly. He shows you things he notices, like a bird singing or the sun shining through the trees, because he wants to experience those things with you.

  • He Compliments You


    Sure, he tells you when he thinks you look pretty. But he also points out things you do and traits of yours he admires -- that's when you know he's really seeing you and appreciating what you have to offer.

  • He Asks Your Opinion


    He asks you if you like this jacket he hasn't worn for a long time. Does it fit right? Do these shoes look right with these pants? What about this tie? Your opinion matters to him -- because he wants your admiration.

  • He's Your #1 Fan


    He's your biggest fan -- but not in a creepy way! He cheers every time you accomplish something, no matter how small.

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