Kristin Cavallari Was Dumped for Best Reason Ever

kristin cavallariKristin Cavallari seemed like the happiest clam made famous by reality -- next to Kim Kardashian, that is. She had a hot, famous football playin' fiance (one Chicago Bears quarterback Jay Cutler), an upcoming dream wedding, a registry at Williams-Sonoma and Crate & Barrel, and an impending move to My Kind of Town, Chicago. And then, this weekend, the fairy tale fell apart, it seems. She was spied out at an L.A. nightclub with Nicky Hilton and supermodel Alessandra Ambrosio, sans sparkly rock, discussing how the engagement was OFF. The buzz is that she got dumped by Jay, not the other way around.

Well, you know what, I say this was The Hills hottie's get out of jail free card! Sure, if you were Kristin, there's a chance you'd feel initially humiliated that the world saw you meet, get engaged, and plan a wedding to a guy in a total whirlwind, and the whole thing came crashing down.

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There are women who aren't even in the public eye who have had it happen to them, and I'm sure it hurts. But, I'm almost positive it's a blessing in disguise.    

I knew a man who left the woman he was going to marry weeks before their wedding. They had a home together, a life, and in the middle of the night, he was gone. She is one of the sweetest people On The Planet, I'm telling you. No bridezilla there! It was the last thing she deserved ... but the guy must have been a coward and, let's face it, a total schmuck to get to THAT point and still walk out the door without even talking about it face-to-face. What BS!

Breaking off an engagement sucks, because you have to face the fact that the reason it's OVER -- and clearly, the reason why it's over between Kristin and Jay -- is that he should have never asked, and/or you should have never said "yes" in the first place. Still, no woman should feel embarrassed by it, whether she was dumped or did the dumping. It's just got to be better to know it's not right before you walk down the aisle. Because, tell me, who would rather have to deal with an annulment or divorce? No one in their right mind!

Sure, it'll be sad for a little while, but ultimately, I think Kristin will be grateful Jay broke things off now instead of walking down the aisle to a life both of them might have regretted.

Do you think Kristin Cavallari dodged a bullet by getting dumped? What do you think about broken engagements?

 

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