The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things to Do Sexually Before Dying

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What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? It definitely depends on one's personal preferences and current relationship status, but we've put together a long list of sexual must-dos for people to get to "work on."

I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23.

Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement.

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I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) -- but this idea of "sexual bucket lists" does intrigue me.

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Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single gals among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos people should consider trying during their lifetime. 


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  • 1. Kiss a girl

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    2. Have anal

    3. Have a threesome  

    4. Engage in group sex   

    5. Have phone sex

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  • 6. Masturbate

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    7. Use a vibrator

    8. Use a sex toy on someone else

    9. Be tied up

    10. Tie someone up

  • 11. Have sex in a public space

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    12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)

    13. Sex in a car

    14. Sex at a drive-in 

    15. Mile-high club

  • 16. Sex with a stranger

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    17. One-night stand

    18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)

    19. Sex on a boat

    20. Sex in a body of water

  • 21. Light spanking

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    22. Read erotica

    23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game

    24. Sex in the shower

    25. Sex standing up against a wall

  • 26. Sex in a tent in the wilderness

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    27. Sex with no kissing 

    28. Sex in the pitch black 

    29. Sex in the broad daylight 

    30. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin 

  • 31. Blindfolded

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    32. Watch porn together

    33. Watch porn alone

    34. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms

    35. Sex on the beach

  • 36. Using ice sexually

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    37. Sexual role play

    38. Whipped cream

    39. La Perla lingerie sex

    40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex

  • 41. A quickie in a skirt

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    42. Sex with someone much older 

    43. Sex with someone younger (legal!) 

    44. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner 

    45. A longie in the rain

  • 46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you

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    47. Feather ticklers

    48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else

    49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone

    50. Silent sex in a full house

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