Man Snoops on Girlfriend He Thinks Is Cheating & Finds Something Much Worse

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If you suspect your partner is cheating and you decide to snoop through his or her things, you're never quite sure what you're going to find. Evidence of an affair? Evidence of something bad that's NOT an affair? Evidence of nothing? How about evidence of something so horrific you immediately dial 911? That's apparently what happened to the boyfriend of 32-year-old Tanai Fortman. Thinking she was cheating on him, her boyfriend snooped through her cellphone and iPad, only to get the shock of his life when he reportedly found sexually explicit videos of his girlfriend -- and a child!

Fortman has been arrested for "illegal use of a minor in nudity-oriented material" -- which sounds like a fancy way of saying child molestation. And it all happened because her "friend" -- who says they were getting very close before he decided to snoop -- found several 30-second-long videos of Fortman and an unidentified child under the age of 5 in explicit situations.

Says the man:

I can't even describe how it all feels. We were close, we were getting very, very close when all this happened. Turned out she had several videos that she was sending to who knows. I was actually completely enraged. I mean it just made me sick to my stomach. I saw red.

He says he had no doubts about calling police and that's exactly what he did. I can only imagine the sickening feeling in his gut. Can you imagine?! Here you are getting to know someone, someone you think might be The One -- or at the very least be normal -- and instead you find out that person is perpetrating such horrific stuff? It's enough to make you never want to trust anyone again.

I am on the fence about snooping. I think that if you suspect someone of something, it's always best to confront that person and ask questions. If you feel the person isn't being honest or dodging, it's probably better to get out rather than suffer years of being on edge and wondering and not trusting.

But in this case, thank god this man snooped!

Have you ever spied on someone and found something horrible?


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Blues... Blueshark77

Wow. Who would think that is what their snooping would uncover? So glad he found it and double glad he called the police. 

youth... youthfulsoul

If your intuition is telling you something off, then it probably is and I see no harm in snooping to get to the bottom of it.


Turns out it was the best thing he could have done.

miche... micheledo

Yeah, this certainly makes a good case for snooping.  If he thought it was wrong to snoop, and never did, this poor child would still be victimized (and who know how many others).  


Glad he snooped!!!

Emmie25 Emmie25

That happened to a family in my hometown. The girlfriend went through her boyfriends phone and saw a video of him raping a little girl. She too called the cops immediately and the guy was arrested. People who hurt children that should die a slow death!

Emmie25 Emmie25

Like that. Stupid phone.

jalaz77 jalaz77

God. Good for this guy for snooping AND reporting her.

nonmember avatar FM

My ex has photos of hir younger sister he shouldn't have (clothed or in a bikini/two piece no less) from before she hit puberty & other photos he took of his female cousin's breasts & butt. He also had a lot of incest cartoon porn. I never liked any of those cartoons & every time my current boyfriend brings up the name of one-those disgusting images flashback. I should have stayed away from his computer but he'd told me he had family photos on there (I just didn't know where) and I stumbled onto his massive porn collection & sick pics he took of his female family members. I don't quite remember but I think his mother was in a few shots as well. Very disturbing. Its no wonder why I hate porn now..

nonmember avatar jessica powell

she is a sick bitch iI hope ever one get her in there

Pixie030 Pixie030

I had a roommate that had started out perfect.. but after some time, was hanging out with the wrong type of people that I couldn't stand, would disappear for days at a time, and just started acting very strange. One of the times she had disappeared I was mad because she had gotten suspended from her job from having a boil in her underarm and had come into my room on occasions to "borrow" my bill money that we kept in one spot in my room. I found a crack pipe in her room and that she had been smoking "ice." So yeah, she had to go after that.

adopt... adoption2013

No I've never found anything of the sort Thank goodness.   What a sick bitch.

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