Notre Dame Linebacker Manti Te'o's Bizarre Fake Girlfriend Hoax Is Unbelievable

Manti Te'oIf the allegations against Notre Dame football player Manti Te'o are true, they're absolutely appalling, outrageous, and he's a truly pathetic man. If his story -- that he's the victim of a huge hoax -- is true, well, then he deserves a big hug.

Here's the deal. According to a report from Deadspin, the Heisman Trophy finalist allegedly concocted a story about a girlfriend, Lennay Kekua, and her subsequent death. The story of her death back in September was all over the news at the time, as people lauded him for being so strong and playing so well through his pain. He said Kekua had been in a car accident and was then diagnosed with leukemia while recovering, which eventually killed her. But still he played on valiantly, earning tears and admiration along the way.

At the time he said she told him to keep playing, to not miss a game if she died. So play on he did, leading his team to the championship game. At a game four days after her death (and that of his grandmother who did really die) he told reporters:

They were with me. So, I couldn't do without them. I couldn't do without the support of my family and my girlfriend's family. I'm so grateful for all the love and support that all the fans, both Michigan State and Notre Dame, and fans around the world for supporting me and my family and my girlfriend's family. I miss them. I miss them. But I know that I'll see them again one day.

But here's the thing -- Kekua never existed. That much we know is true. It was a haox, and Te'o has acknowledged it. Now the big question is who was behind the hoax and how much Te'o knew? Was it all fueled by Te'o to get sympathy? Or was it some cruel-hearted prankster with exceptionally persuasive skills strong enough to make a man fall in love with a woman he never met and continue a relationship with her for more than a year online and over the phone? The former is certainly easier to believe.

But Te'o says he had no clue. In a statement he said:

This is incredibly embarrassing to talk about, but over an extended period of time, I developed an emotional relationship with a woman I met online. We maintained what I thought to be an authentic relationship by communicating frequently online and on the phone, and I grew to care deeply about her.

To realize that I was the victim of what was apparently someone's sick joke and constant lies was, and is, painful and humiliating.

Is that possible? Really? Deadspin says Kekua's online persona was created by Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, a friend of Te'o's. So was he tricking his friend, or helping him carry out the hoax? So many questions.

Either way though I find it absolutely unbelievable -- unbelievable that someone could sink that low, or unbelievable that someone could really be that gullible. If I had to bet, though based on the facts we have now, I'd put my money on the former. 

Do you think Manti Te'o is telling the truth that he was a victim of a hoax? Or do you think he made the whole thing up?


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lovem... lovemyson1224

According to a USA Today article Te'o wasn't the first person to be tricked by this guy. I'm not saying the story isn't strange but sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.

Chandra Haverstock

There are sick people on the internet who blog about having a fatal illness and getting people roped in...all to find out it was all faked by the blog author. Kaycee Nicole is a good example. I would bet this guy was duped...

Sarahm24 Sarahm24

Watch catfish on mtv and see how many people are tricked into believing they're actually talking to the person in the photo, some people are just cruel.

fave82 fave82

He was in on it. He told espn and sportscenter that she would come visit him in Hawaii.

marci... marcie1455

The internet is a mess.  People lie all the time.  I watch Catfish too!  Maybe he was definitely duped.  He might have found out at some point and tried to save face, especially being such a big football celebrity.  It would really be embarrassing and humilating to be tricked.  I can't wait to hear what he personally has to say.

Tripl... TripleC14

Grown adults are duped all the time, so I wouldn't be shocked if he was tricked. I'm waiting to pass judgment.

CPN322 CPN322

Sarahm24 - that show is the first thing that came to my mind when reading this. I still can't believe people make fake profiles.

quirk... quirkychic

The MTV show catfish comes to mind after reading this. Why would he make up such a thing? He was probably fooled.

tiffa... tiffanydearing

It's possible he was duped, Catfished!! It happens more often then you would think. 

nonmember avatar J. Johnson

Amazing!......Absolutely, amazing!!..........Either he is the biggest idiot and "snake-in-the-grass" on this earth......OR.........We were the idiots for really believing that someone could call a woman "girlfriend", who he has never met and continue an "online" romance until here alleged "death"!!

Are you kidding me!!........I question the integrity of Notre Dame for even hiring an investigator to delve into this ludicrous prank and for actually believing that "Man'ti" never knew that this "death" of his girlfriend was real??!!........Are they as stupid as this "mentally-disturbed", "starving-for-attention" football player??

I guess "STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES"!!.........Again, UNBELIEVABLE"!!!

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