Got a creepy ex-boyfriend story? Hopefully it doesn't come close to this one. Craig Jaret Hutchinson is facing 18 months in jail after he pricked holes in his girlfriend's condoms. The girlfriend -- well ex-girlfriend these days -- ended up pregnant with a baby she never wanted and ended up getting an abortion.
Hutchinson, meanwhile, was hauled into court. He's been convicted on charges of sexual assault. What in heaven's name would make a guy think this was OK?
Apparently Hutchinson and the woman identified only as N.C. had been together nine months and things were getting a little rocky. He told cops in Nova Scotia he thought a baby would bring them back together.
So he forced her to have unprotected sex without her consent?
Not the answer, folks. Not even close. Obviously the key to any relationship is trust, and Hutchinson violated that one big time.
But this particular method -- sabotaging birth control -- is troubling because it stole away this woman's right to choose what happens to her own body. Sure, she said yes to sex, but she very deliberately made use of condoms because she was not ready for what results when having unprotected sex. And then she was stuck dealing with that aftermath anyway because her boyfriend was a sicko!
N.C. had to go through the heartwrenching decision of having an abortion she never should have had to have, an abortion she was actively trying to prevent just as she was trying to prevent pregnancy by using condoms.
What Hutchinson -- and really anyone -- needs to learn is that you can't make someone else's decisions for them. We have free will, free reign over our own bodies. Violating that is violating the most personal of human rights.
Does this qualify as a crime worth 18 months in jail in your book?
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While I think that 18 months for what this jack ass did isn't enough time, but this happened in Canada, so their laws obviously differ than those of the U.S. Had it happened here, he would have gotten a much harsher punishment and made to be a registered sex offender the rest of his life knowing no other woman will trust him. If he is even lucky enough to be in another relationship.
While I find his behavior deplorable, I don't consider it sexual assault. Some sort of fraud, or other charge but this degrades what women who are assaulted go through. I am by no means saying that this woman did not go through something horrible but at the same time there should be something else to convict him of. If this is an educated woman she should have known that the abstinance or a complete hysterectomy is the only way to truly prevent pregnancy. While I feel that this guy is an ass and deserves to be punished I think that the law should catch up and figure out a different thing to charge him with.