Whoever it was who first said "everything has its time" could have been talking about the dad who's making news this week for selling the incredible memorabilia collection he's spent years building just to help his ailing daughter. Talk about timing! We're about to spend weeks agonizing over our budgets so we can figure out how to buy a whole bunch of stuff for the different people in our lives without going broke. But here we have Ken Kallin.
The man has spent three decades collecting gems like the autographs of Neil Armstrong, Bette Davis, and Muhammad Ali, and he's going to put it all on the auction block this weekend. You know why?
Because stuff doesn't matter.
That's it. That's why a man is putting three decades worth of work up for auction. That's why a man will take something he loves and sell it just. like. that.
It takes your breath away, doesn't it? That a dad loves his daughter that much?
At the same it time, it makes you look around your home and wonder what the heck you're doing, doesn't it? Why we're spending all this time amassing material goods? And why we're fretting about the holiday season?
Stuff is just, well, it's stuff. At the end of the day, the signature of the man who floated like a butterfly and stung like a bee, the scrawling penmanship of the first man on the moon, is nothing to a man whose 43-year-old daughter spends every day, whose grandchildren are living in a home where their parents are struggling to pay the bills.
Kallin's daughter, Julie Susi, suffers from mixed connective tissue disorder. It's a rare disease that shares features with lupus and rheumatoid arthritis. It has made it impossible for her to work. It's put her behind on her bills. She and her husband are trying to raise two kids, but just paying her monthly medical insurance bill is a challenge.
And here her dad sits with stuff. Stuff that's estimated to be worth $5.4 million, stuff he worked hard to collect, but still, stuff. And he's willing to give it all up to give her, to give his grandkids, a better life.
I'd say that's the best lesson any of us could have asked for as we dive into the holiday season, don't you?
Will this Dad's tribute to his daughter change the way you celebrate the holidays?
Image via Kevin Dooley/Flickr


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Comments 7
God bless you, Ken!
And all I can think is "What will they do when this bit of money runs out?" since struggling to pay medical bills is not going to go away as long as this woman lives.....
Which shows why the Us needs health care reform......
If used wisely, this money could last a long while. Pay off a Reasonable home, in the name of one of the kids so that it cannot be taken by creditors for medical bills, or put it into a living trust, make sure it's energy efficient so that they do not have as high a monthly utility costs, prioritize getting them into a place where they can survive on the husbands income and any insurance if he passes, that should be priority.
And I agree with Nellie, medical costs are HUGE, without insurance, this could be gone through in no time. And there needs to be some sort of reform.
While I agree that what this dad did was great... why is it celebrated? He took care of his child. Granted, that child is grown with her own children,but still. Isn't that what any decent parent would do when they were needed by their kids?
Last year, I was a single mom, 36 years old, living alone with my then 7 year old daughter. Perfectly healthy, working a great job that I loved. Then one morning, when I was getting ready to go to work, I had a stroke. The stroke left me with seizures. I could not drive. With the work that I do, that meant I could not work. No money coming in, no help taking care of myself or my daughter. My dad dropped everything, shortly after he retired, and moved in with me until I started getting back on my feet and I sent him home.
About 2 months after he left, I was still struggling. I wasn't adjusting to the medication as well as I should have been, I still wasn't able to drive due to having seizures randomly. He came and got my daughter and I and moved us in with him. He pays the tuition for my daughter to go to private school. He drove me around all day until I could drive again. He dropped all his retirement travel plans to stay at home, volunteer at my daughter's school and make sure that I was getting back on my feet heatlh-wise.
And did I mention he did all this a couple months after having a knee replacement, along with not being in the best of health himself?
Oh... and did I also mention that this man isn't my biological father? He was my foster-father that found me when I was an obnoxious teenager struggling to find a family.
But, that is what a parent does. That is what I would do for my child if she needed me also. We don't need to celebrate it. It just is.