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Pentagon Confirms Military Casualties at 'Dark Knight Rises' Massacre (VIDEO)

by Emily Abbate on July 20, 2012 at 1:12 PM

movie theater seatsMy heart broke this morning when I woke to the news that at least 12 people were killed and 50 others were injured (including a 4-month-old baby) at a midnight showing of The Dark Knight Rises in Aurora, Colorado. To think, these innocent people were out to enjoy the hype and excitement that surrounded the newest Batman movie. Now, the lives of so many are changed forever by 24-year-old shooter James Holmes. Why this movie theater? Why this showing? Sadly, there are no answers ... yet.

To be real with you: my heart broke again with the recent reports out of the Pentagon that some members of the military were either killed or wounded during the early morning shooting.

No, the sacrifice of these military members is no greater than the other civilians in attendance. But man if those involved deployed overseas and have seen combat, then there's no denying it's certainly tragic.

I dated an Army guy for a while who deployed to Afghanistan twice. I experienced what it was like to be on the other side of a deployment, hearing about all the scary, bone-chilling things happening on the other side of the world thousands of miles away. It wasn't easy. When these service members come home, it's a huge victory. It's a breath of fresh air. Which is why it's so hard to hear the stories of men and women who have served our country overseas, and then face an untimely death in a completely different scenario here on our own soil.

I guess many of us live in this bubble. We like to think that here in America, we are safe. The truth, as we are painfully reminded by events like last night's shooting, is that we never REALLY are. No one could have predicted what happened in Colorado last night.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of the families affected by the shooting. Hear more about last night's massacre and see President Obama's recently released statement, here: 

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  • Again
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    Again

    July 20, 2012 at 1:31 PM
    I don't necessarily feel worse for the military who died.... Every single person killed was a family member of someone else who is heartbroken right now. I understand in-combat or deployment sacrifices, but constantly putting the military on a pedestal in everyday civilian life irks me a bit. There is no draft, they chose their lifestyle like anyone else. They save lives? So do Doctors Without Borders volunteers, ER doctors, oncologists, neurosurgeons. They protect citizens? So do policemen, firemen, the Neighborhood Watch. They defend my right to write this comment? So do lawyers, congressmen and student protesters who stand their ground through riot police, pepper spray and dangerous counterprotests. At the end of the day, a human being is lost and grieved for, and it doesn't matter who they were beforehand, just that they were loved by someone else.
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    brandspanknnew

    July 20, 2012 at 2:03 PM

    I agree wholeheartedly with you @again.


  • Taisie
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    Taisie

    July 20, 2012 at 2:23 PM

    Right on "Again" ! Very well said!


  • stork...
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    storkneedsgps

    July 20, 2012 at 2:30 PM
    While it is sad that there were military members there, it does not make it worse or change the situation at all. Just because you're military doesn't mean your family will miss you more than if you were a civilian. It does not make you less dead if you were a civilian killed. I respect the military very much but this article and attitude is a slap in the face to the civilian victims
  • Katy
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    Katy

    July 20, 2012 at 3:20 PM
    Ladies she was not saying military were more important! She specifically said that the military death were no more important. She said while death happens all the time over where the war is we don't see it all the time over here. We feel protected in our country but sadly we are not because of sickos like this man. I live in Aurora, I know people that were there and I thank God the people I do know are safe! And my heart breaks for the wounded and killed!! It's an unfair tragic event!
  • Pinkmani
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    Pinkmani

    July 20, 2012 at 3:54 PM
    I missed the part where they said how he came in the theatre. When I lived in NY, our movie theatre had a metal detector.
  • PonyC...
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    PonyChaser

    July 20, 2012 at 4:43 PM

    Here's why I think it's a tragedy that these Military people died in this way... in Afghanistan, they are allowed to carry their weapons and defend themselves when they're being attacked or shot at.

    Here in America, the Land of the Free, where the Second Amendment protects our right to keep and bear arms, those Military personnel were banned from carrying guns by the very same government that trained them to use them. Had even one of them been armed, this "tragedy" (it's not a "tragedy" it's a HEINOUS CRIME) might have been cut short or even averted. Those military members might be celebrated as living heroes instead of having their funerals planned.


  • Kayla Jo
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    Kayla Jo

    July 20, 2012 at 5:55 PM
    The point: It's sad when men and women struggle through war and come home to reunite with their family only to be gunned down by a man that they willingly went to war to protect and defend. Your points: Irrelevant, ungrateful, and disgusting. Sincerely, A military wife
  • mrsrev
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    mrsrev

    July 20, 2012 at 6:01 PM

    I think a few of you are missing the point of the article.  The author isn't saying that the military members who lost their lives last night in Colorado deserve anything extra over the civilians.  What she is saying is that it is hard for the families to have struggled through deployment, praying constantly for the safety of their soldiers, and welcome them home so grateful for their safety, just to lose them senselessly like this.  As an Army wife, I understand what she's talking about.  You don't want to go through a deployment, all the stress and agony it brings, and finally start to relax, believing your loved one is safe, to lose them in a way that didn't have to happen.  For a military family, it just makes the loss that much worse some how.  I guess if you're not a military family it's pretty hard to understand.


  • Akeel D
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    Akeel D

    July 20, 2012 at 6:04 PM

    As a member of the military I agree with ponychaser..we dont ask for u 2 feel sorry for us. We do that enough ourselves because most of what we do is looked at as not being appreciated and we really dont care because only certain people can do what we do and call it/us what you want but reality is reality unless you have the heart 2 do what we do all we ask is that u respect what we do. We put our lives on the line while u go 2 work and go home. Anyway bacc on topic. If any of those members were allowed 2 carry this could have been avoided. We are trained 2 deal with things like this but cant because the american people cant think for themselves and would do whatever anyone says. i feel like all police n military should b allowed 2 carry at anytime because if i am bein trained 4 this 2 protect america over seas i should b allowed 2 protect the people in it while at home.


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