Four pregnant women sit next to each other at a busy airport. Cara, is from Canada, Mary is from Mexico, Anne is from the U.S., and Irene is from Italy. Like most women that have just met, they are able to form an instant bond about their pregnancies. They shared how much weight they have gained, stories about morning sickness, and more. For the most part, their stories are typical. It’s not until the conversation turns to the topic of maternity leave do their stories start to differ.
Cara shares that she will be at home on a paid leave for almost an entire year after her baby’s birth. She will return to work two weeks before her baby turns one. Mary, who will get 12 weeks of paid leave, looks at Cara with envy. She is worried that 12 weeks of paid leave is not enough time to before she returns to work. Irene is not as worried because she knows that five and half months of paid time off will give her enough time to get the baby on a decent schedule before she returns to work.
But when Anne shares her story, the other ladies realize they don't have it as bad. Anne will stay home with her baby, not because she can afford to, but because she can’t afford childcare. Although Anne has been working as a paralegal for a small law firm for the last four years, she is not eligible for any paid time off when the baby is born. Like many American women, she used all her vacation and personal days to attend her routine pregnancy exams. By the time the baby arrives, she will not have any more paid time off. Anne will work until the baby is born and she will not return to work. She will quit. It doesn't matter than Anne works for a thriving law practice. She is the only paralegal on staff and her firm will not be able to sustain the practice without her. A replacement, a male, has already been hired.
Anne was faced with a problem that many American women are faced with she decides to have a child. What to do when the child is born. Anne does not make enough money to afford child care. So she has been left with the only choice available, to quit.
How is it possible that the leader of the free world, fails when it comes to protecting new moms? There is no reason why the United States is one of only three nations in the world that does not require employers to offer paid leave to new moms.
At the federal level, there is some limited protection for pregnant women through the Pregnancy Discrimination Act, The Family and Medical Leave Act, or Title VII of the Civil Rights Act. But not all women are covered under those laws. Those laws apply only if you work for what is called a “covered employer,” or an employer that has either 20, 50, or 15 employees, respectively. Women are left to try and find protection through any available state statutes that may or may not offer protection to more women.
Some may argue that the U.S. doesn't value family, motherhood, or breastfeeding as do other countries. Who knows. But it’s time for us to get it together. If 178 other nations can figure it out, so can we. Let’s stand up for new moms in this country and require that employers offer paid time off to all new moms.
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Comments 56
When does the poor employer get to make a profit?
Or should they just shut the doors?
Then what are y'all going to do???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
omg no one is actually saying the words that the employer has to pay. How about we start drug testing people before we give them their welfare checks and food stamps and take that money and use it for paid maternity leave. Why should we pay for the people who use welfare for their drugs? I know not all people on welfare are using their money for that but a good portion are. We could be helping out mothers and their newborns spend time together instead of making women choose their jobs over the babies.
We also got daycare such subsidies when our three were little. It enabled us both to work and provide for their needs. Regarding the family allowance, we still get it for our two teenagers even though we make over $100k. The govt still pops 112 bucks in our account every month. Vive la Canada! :)
Yep, we don't just say we want to support families here, we do it. Oh and we support EVERY family, gay or straight.
Aren't you ever a little lucky duck Procrasto. If we wanted to be like Canada we would be but we DON'T. We like being Americans. We don't want the government supporting us. I'm glad my dad left Canada 55 years ago and made American our new home. Whew!
JAFE some of us Americans would love it if our government supported us instead of themselves and people that don't want to work for their money. Sometimes i am disappointed to say I am an American. I love America and being here but the government needs to get their priorities straight. They are fighting stupid battles like gay marriage and outlawing abortions. When they should be focused on stuff like fixing our country and supporting the next generation so they don't turn into a bunch of fuck ups.
I agree with you for the most part Desireesmom but trust me, we don't want to be like Canada. We aren't nearly perfect but they aren't free to choose like we are. Do a little research. I lived there for almost 10 years as I am part Canadian and there are a lot of things that you wouldn't believe. They can't even vote for a person. They vote for the person in their "municipality" (district) and that vote goes to the "party" that's running for the PM. In other words, you have to vote for the party the person you want is in, whether you like who you're voting for in your municipality or not. When I went to vote the first time I was flabbergasted that we didn't vote for the PM directly. What if the guy in your muncipality is a jerk?
They also have very mediocre medical care. You can't just go to a doctor of your choosing. You can't even get a tetanus shot unless you've been hurt. I'm glad I moved back. Give me my Mayo Clinics.
Don't wish for something you don't know about. They also are programed to think they get everything for free when they pay almost triple the taxes we pay. They think that's free. Almost all my relatives cross the border for medical and eye appts.
I like this post. When I had my daughter there was no other choice but for me to stay home because my entire salary would be put into childcare....Luckily, my husband's pay is enough for us to live confortably.
I was working when I had my two youngest. I was paid a % of my income from short term disability insurance, a benefit paid for by my employer at that time. I was "ready" to go back to work in 6 weeks but could've taken up to 12 paid. I'm done having babies, but I've got grandbabies- still I'm on the line about this. Maybe there could be a program like social security that ALL full time employers have to offer.