Four pregnant women sit next to each other at a busy airport. Cara, is from Canada, Mary is from Mexico, Anne is from the U.S., and Irene is from Italy. Like most women that have just met, they are able to form an instant bond about their pregnancies. They shared how much weight they have gained, stories about morning sickness, and more. For the most part, their stories are typical. It’s not until the conversation turns to the topic of maternity leave do their stories start to differ.
Cara shares that she will be at home on a paid leave for almost an entire year after her baby’s birth. She will return to work two weeks before her baby turns one. Mary, who will get 12 weeks of paid leave, looks at Cara with envy. She is worried that 12 weeks of paid leave is not enough time to before she returns to work. Irene is not as worried because she knows that five and half months of paid time off will give her enough time to get the baby on a decent schedule before she returns to work.
But when Anne shares her story, the other ladies realize they don't have it as bad. Anne will stay home with her baby, not because she can afford to, but because she can’t afford childcare. Although Anne has been working as a paralegal for a small law firm for the last four years, she is not eligible for any paid time off when the baby is born. Like many American women, she used all her vacation and personal days to attend her routine pregnancy exams. By the time the baby arrives, she will not have any more paid time off. Anne will work until the baby is born and she will not return to work. She will quit. It doesn't matter than Anne works for a thriving law practice. She is the only paralegal on staff and her firm will not be able to sustain the practice without her. A replacement, a male, has already been hired.
Anne was faced with a problem that many American women are faced with she decides to have a child. What to do when the child is born. Anne does not make enough money to afford child care. So she has been left with the only choice available, to quit.
How is it possible that the leader of the free world, fails when it comes to protecting new moms? There is no reason why the United States is one of only three nations in the world that does not require employers to offer paid leave to new moms.
At the federal level, there is some limited protection for pregnant women through the Pregnancy Discrimination Act, The Family and Medical Leave Act, or Title VII of the Civil Rights Act. But not all women are covered under those laws. Those laws apply only if you work for what is called a “covered employer,” or an employer that has either 20, 50, or 15 employees, respectively. Women are left to try and find protection through any available state statutes that may or may not offer protection to more women.
Some may argue that the U.S. doesn't value family, motherhood, or breastfeeding as do other countries. Who knows. But it’s time for us to get it together. If 178 other nations can figure it out, so can we. Let’s stand up for new moms in this country and require that employers offer paid time off to all new moms.
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Comments 56
I think some of these comments are silly. Even if you are talking about a married couple when people have sex a baby can be made. I wish in life you can plan every detail but you can't. My husband and I was both working full time when I became pregnant with my first child. To put my daughter in day care not only would it take my my salary but a portion of my husband as well. Day care is very expensive and even if you save money the whole 9 months money is tight. Everyday someone keeps talking about not having children until you can afford them but the way this country is going no one will be able to have kids. Prices of everything is getting up. Food, gas, clothing, shelter prices are soaring but paychecks even yearly raises are staying the same.
"Paid maternity leave" seems the be the hot button topic recently, and it makes me think of Social Security. You could use the same arguments for both, "Why should I have to pay because you didn't save up enough for retirement?"
I'm 25, and I've had at least 1 job (sometimes 2) AND have been a student for 8 years, I've paid into a system that will be bankrupt by the time I'm eligible for it, but that doesn't mean I have the attitude of "Well, screw old people they should have planned better or made better life decsions". Instead my paycheck is garnished to assist citizens who can no longer provide for themselves.
At one point, those people did the same, and at some point those babies being born will do the same when they start working. Everyone should contribute to the society we live in. We help people going out of this world, why wouldn't we help people coming into this world?
Mothers should have the option and if they choose to have a baby paid time off is what should happen. You know any women in the working field who uses this would also be paying in to it many times over the amount she uses due to the fact that American women have on average 2.1 Children but back in the day when mommas could stay home and do the right thing our population rate was a lot higher. So ya'll feminist get off your high horse and deal with it.
I worked until the day before my 2nd daughter was born, and took a total of 6 days off work because I could not afford to take anymore time, I didn't even miss a paycheck. I had to, I was the sole provider and did not have any paid time off either... smh
i think we should get a longer maternity leave. i chose to stay home with my son and not go back to work until he was nine month old. ive been back to work 3 months and im only working part time. he will only be a baby once. once he is old enough for school i can look for a full time job. until then, the around 15 hours i spend away from him a week is more then enough for me. my job didnt offer a paid maternity leave. yes, money is tighter with me not working full time. but i think it is worth it. i dont want strangers raising my son in daycare.
This is the 4th post this week about this topic. Don't you read what each other write? Couldn't was please discuss something else? Comments I see here have been copied and pasted from other posts. How dumb is that?