Alexander Pope should be spinning in his grave today. He's the guy who said, "To err is human, to forgive divine." But I'm pretty sure he didn't mean police should be forgiving the parents who didn't realize they'd "accidentally" left their 3-year-old at a Maryland Chuck E. Cheese until they saw her face on the 11 o'clock news.
But that's exactly what happened this week in Bel Air, Maryland. Police were called to the kiddie restaurant around 8 p.m. on Sunday to help a lost little girl named Harmony who approached a restaurant manager to say she was a little thirsty. But they didn't get a call from Harmony's mom and dad until after 11 ... after her picture was plastered on every TV screen in town. And they still gave her back!
That is some mighty powerful forgiveness right there! Maybe too powerful?
The parents, who share custody but seem to be split up, apparently told the coppers that they'd been at a "large party" at the Chuck E. Cheese, and they each thought their daughter had gone off with another member of the family. Then lo and behold her sweet little face topped off with a pink ribbon ends up on the news. The parents called, and Child Protective Services handed Harmony right over to her mom. They're even saying they won't file charges.
Gee whiz, I mean, they were watching TV that night. Totally awesome job there folks.
Wait, what???
I don't know about you, but I'm feeling sort of lost here. I know accidents happen and people get forgetful. I mean, just the other day I walked in the bathroom to take out my contacts and realized I'd taken the solution into the living room. So you know, I had to just walk right back in there and get that bottle.
Except little girls are not bottles of contact solution. And when you forget little girls, horrible, awful, terrible things can happen. Harmony was just 3 years old. When my kid was 3, you had better believe I either had my eyes on her in public places or made sure someone else did. Made sure. As in, I didn't assume she was with my mom or my brother or my husband or my bestie. I physically walked her over to another responsible adult, looked them square in the eye, and said, "So, you have her, right?" and got an affirmative (vocally!) before I relinquished my control.
I'm not saying either of Harmony's parents meant to leave her at the Chuck E. Cheese. I'll even go with the word that CPS use: this could have been "inadvertent." But "inadvertent" doesn't mean "excusable." And that's what everyone seems to have done in Bel Air this week ... excused the crap out of some spectacularly crappy parenting. Check out more on this crazy story:
What do you think should be done with these parents? Parenting classes? Community service?
Image via Harford County Sheriff’s Office
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How about child endangerment charges? neglect? i mean seriously...even if they did think she was with a family member wouldn't you check to be sure before you drive home and go on about your day as if you didn't even have a child? I understand mistakes happen and I'm not saying she should be taken away but there should have been consequences.
Is this a case from a few years back or is it ANOTHER one?
It's not complicated. Even if you are expecting your child to be with another family member, have the good sense to make sure they have her (or him, whatever the case may be). I mean it's really a no-brainer.
That's so sad to hear. That's why it's always good to check with others before leaving a place like that. But I don't want to judge till the full story comes out.
The fact that neither one kissed her goodbye is troublesome and neither one seemed to know who had her that night. If they were watching the news together then that makes it even worse. Putting the little one in foster care seems too harsh but both of them should be arrested and forced to go to parenting classes. AND they should be watched like hawks to see that this never happens again. Their backgrounds need checking out; like are they alcoholics or drug addicts. There is no excuse for this and being a mother I would see to it that if my little one was with her father, I'd have hugged her and loved her up before she left. He should have done the same. No excuse for these a**h****