Death By Fantasy Sex: Husband 'Bangs' Wife to Death


Heather Murphy-Raines/Scout's Honor
As I search out news stories that will interest you here on The Stir, there are times where I wish could take back what I see on the interwebs. You know Elder Porn and mothers smothering children or facing stoning death sentences. I wish I could just bleach my mind. Instead, I share it with you in hopes of finding meaning in a world of inexplicable acts.

Such is the case of Oklahoma City resident Arthur Sedille. Ugh. Where to begin...

Oh, yes, 23-year-old Mr. Sedille is facing possible murder charges in the death of his 50-year-old wife Rebecca Sedille who he shot point blank in the head. Those facts are not in contention.

Yet, he claims innocence. It was merely an accident he says. Yes, he put the gun to her head during sex, but he thought the gun was unloaded when he pulled the handgun's slide back.

t appears Mr. Sedille OFTEN put a gun to his wife's head during sex. Nope, not my idea of the healthiest of sexual relations -- if it's even true.

I'm sure all of us have a juicy fantasy that plays front row every once in a while in our marriages. Nothing wrong with that at all. Furry hand cuffs? Got 'em. Silken ribbons perfect for bed posts? Guilty. Riding crop?  {Blush} But a deadly weapon? No way. 

And if the Sedilles did engage in such a sexual practice, why on earth would REAL bullets ever be put in their fetish toy??! Wouldn't a realistic squirt gun have been a better option?

Sadly, it looks like authorities may believe his story. Apparently, his calling the police makes him seem more innocent?  CNN reports:

Never Point Guns At Those You Love

Investigators decided to arrest and jail Sedille on suspicion of first-degree murder out of an abundance of caution, said Oklahoma City police Master Sgt. Gary Knight. However, as of Tuesday afternoon, formal charges had not been filed in the investigation, which is ongoing, Knight said.

I'm going to go on record and say that if he pulls this off, I think we might expect a remarkable increase in women being banged to death by their mates.

The only thing that I can take away from this -- which is what my husband and I, as previous Army officers have ingrained in our kids since they were toddlers -- is, never point a gun at anyone or anything you don't intend to kill (especially someone you love).

Whether fantasy sex or play or protection, It's really that simple. Don't point at anything you don't mean to shoot. As for Mr. Sedille?  I'm not buying it.  Are you?


Images via ScoutsHonor, Plasticsturgeon, & jajoma/Flickr

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Babyl... Babylove76

Do I buy his claim of an act gone horribly wrong during a resque sexual experience? Not sure, I mean there are many couples that do the choking thing (where the woman is litterally being choked while in the heat of the moment. I find this to be scary and downright stupid - but there are people who "get off" on that behavior, but it's not for me.

It seems that there must be something, some kind of evidence that there is a possibility of his unintention of actually shooting his wife since they have not charged him yet....guess we'll have to see.

nonmember avatar Anonymous

I've met the guy, unfortunately my little brother (29) married his step-daughter (19/20) earlier this year. He showed up to the wedding in sweat pants and I had to tie his tie and tell him how to put a suit on. After that and subsequent conversations, viewings of his and Rebecca's facebook/myspace pages, I can easily see the gun fetish. The only thing is, I don't buy the fact that it was an accident, there are a few things that were going on behind the scenes that the police haven't gotten to yet.

nonmember avatar Allboys

Well it's at the very least negligent homicide. Why didn't he safety check the weapon before engaging in this sort of sex play with his wife? If it was an accident I don't think he should face an overly harsh sentence. But he did kill her due to his own negligence and that should be punished in some fashion.

hotic... hoticedcoffee

I'm not sure how he wouldn't be charged with something, even if it was a mistake and part of their regular sex routine.  If we believe him that he didn't know it was loaded, then he failed to check for bullets before he put a gun to her head.  What a very bizarre story.

Mrs.S... Mrs.Sparkle

People have some strange fetishes and seeing as how there was such a big age difference she mostlikely did any and everything to keep him. I've done some really kinky things but never with anything that could or would hurt me or my spouse. I can only hope it was a true accident and if it really was then he should not be punished but knowing how Okc is they might just run with this.

nonmember avatar Ruby

Sigh. I live in OKC . Please know that it is actually a pretty nice middies city and not everything u read in the news us reflective of the entire population. I have lived all over the country so this opinion is not just that of a native Oklahoman. Sigh.

momintow momintow

sex..whats that and by gun way

sodapple sodapple

to each their own in their fantasy but, a gun? really i do not buy it even if they have a video to prove that they have done it before during intercourse. wow!

Emera... Emerald_storm01

Yep, I buy it.  As someone in the BDSM scene, gun play is really not all that uncommon.  This guy was an idiot for not checking the gun to make sure it was unloaded BEFORE play, that was the only mistake.  He's innocent, and it was a terrible, unfortunate ACCIDENT.

Shanin22 Shanin22

I believe the gun play thing (there's weirder stuff out there).... but that doesn't excuse him from using common sense and taking precautions when participating in more risky sex.

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