The images of beautiful Jenni-Lyn Watson are difficult to look at too closely in light of recent discoveries
The 20-year-old ballerina took off from college and headed to her parents' home in Liverpool, New York, for the Thanksgiving holiday last week. But instead of enjoying time with friends and family and feasting on turkey, she was reported missing shortly after she arrived home.
Today police found what they believe is her body, dumped "like garbage" in the woods.
Steven Pieper, 21, who had reportedly been dating Watson off and on for 18 months has been arrested and charged with second degree murder. According to reports, Watson had tried to end things with Piper last month.
Watson's MySpace page offers a glimpse into her seemingly happy life. It contains numerous of pictures of her and a guy who appears to be Pieper together, looking like any young couple in love. Her status still remains: "loved."
Her "about me" is haunting in its lack originality, in the way it reads just like that of any other typical college girl:
“im jenni-lyn, everyone calls me Jenn-ay (like in forest gump). I’m going to be a sophomore at Mercyhurst college, im majoring in dance!! i love all my friends they are the best!! I’m a pretty simple person and usually pretty happy, especially at college!! i love black and white photography, watching the clouds, chillen at my camp, happy endings and disney movies, drinking hot coco after being out in the snow, and just the simple things in life. i’ve had some experiences that opened my eyes and made me who i am now but with that comes my huge trust issue... i dont trust people easily so don’t take it personally. I love my boyfriend he is thte best thing thats ever happened to me”
Whether Pieper is the boyfriend she's referring to, or the source of her trust issues, or both, isn't clear. What is clear is that she was a talented, vibrant young woman whose life ended much too soon.
I can't stop looking at all the photos of Watson and her friends, of Watson dancing, of Watson looking like the happy, well-rounded daughter any parent would be proud to call their own.
Then I think of Pieper. Did Watson's parents welcome him into their own home? Did they imagine him as their future son-in-law (some reports say they were engaged at one point)?
Or did her mother have a bad feeling about him from the beginning? Had she tried to warn her daughter?
And what of Pieper's parents -- how can you cope with the fact that your own child may have taken someone's life?
There are many known dangers we can prepare our children for and protect them from as they grow, but when it comes to relationships there's often a pull over which we have no control.
It's terrifying enough as a parent to think of your child's fragile, trusting heart being broken by love, but to imagine her life being taken in the name of it, is unfathomable.
R.I.P. Jenni-Lyn Watson. I hope you're dancing with the angels.
Have you ever worried about a child or a friend in a relationship you felt may be dangerous? What did you do?
Images via MySpace
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Comments (13)
I worry about it every day. Every time I watch the news, I look at my daughter or my son and I wonder what if? what would i do? I hope they never encounter a relationship like that, where they may fear for their safety, their life. I hope that my child never causes someone else that kind of pain. That they grow up the kind loving people I want them to be.
My heart breaks for Jenni-Lyn's parents.
"Dancing with the angels"... a beautiful sentiment, Julie. I hope she is, too. Jenni Lyn & her parents have been in my prayers since she was reported missing; now I'll pray for her parents' strength.
Very sad.
My 6 year old is friends with a child who already seems "off", which is terrible to say about another 6 year old, but sometimes you just know when something isn't right with someone. Fortunately the friend will be attending a different school next year, so the friendship will dissolve since I don't allow playdates with that child.
I totally agree, heartbreaking and SO scary. I have known so many women in my life (my sister, my best friends) who have just terrible taste in men and they don't see it; they want so badly to be with someone, to belong, to be part of a twosome, that they are blind to everything. I'm not saying that's what happened to this poor girl, but her info provided sounds a lot like the girls I have known... so happy, so laidback, and probably way too trusting. The poor girl doesn't deserve judgment, but if I were her parents, beyond the grief and the pain, I would be wondering if there was anything I missed... that should have told me sooner to do something much bigger than just break up. I found out my sister's live in boyfriend was hitting her, and was amazed that she still lived with him... it's a real problem.
These news stories at CafeMom are so depressing this week-end. How horrible. I feel so bad for her family to anticipate their daughter's return that never happened. I have a pit in my stomach and my oldest is still 4 years from college. Makes a mom want to hold her babies too close and never let them go...
I totally agree with Scout. I have three beautiful little girls. Beautiful enough that strangers stop me in the street and tell me they should be in modeling. (Yeah, buddy, because I want to emotionally scar my daughters). These kinds of stories freak me out in a very close-to-home kind of way.
I had no idea that this local story had made the national news. I am so sad to hear the outcome. It sickens me. :-(
RIP Jenni-Lyn
This breaks my heart. I didn't know her, but she looked like a beautiful girl. My stepdad had put out a request for prayers on his facebook when she first went missing--she was his cousin, I believe. I feel so bad not being able to be close to him for this. My prayers and love go out to all of her family.
This happened about an hour from where I live. I'd been following the story, and was heartbroken when I heard they had found her body and shortly after charged her boyfriend/ex-boyfriend. Such a sad story. I had really hoped they'd find her okay.