Photo by Sheri Reed
Yep, high as a kite from decluttering my closet and nothing more. This is good stuff. It's all natural. C'mon and take a hit...
I love to organize, sort, and purge my things. It makes me happy. I've known this since I was a girl — something about putting everything in its place and getting rid of the old and unused makes me giddy inside.
I have some good, simple rules to follow while closet cleaning. I ask myself:
- Have you worn this in the past year?
- Do you feel good when you wear this article of clothing?
Then I look at all the black T-shirts, white button-ups, and other basics I think I need to hang onto and ask myself again:
- Have you worn this in a year?
If I answer "No" to any of these questions, then the item gets bagged and donated.
Of course, I had no idea that closet cleaning could get even better than this. As I said yesterday, I'm reading Gretchen Rubin's book The Happiness Project. In Chapter 1 of Gretchen's book, she covers closet cleaning (her words, "If you need to self medicate, clean a closet"), and she includes two brilliant questions that I could add to my closet cleaning rule sheet. Yippee!
I read this advice on the plane and could barely contain myself from cleaning out my closet when I got home (I waited until morning). With the addition of Gretchen's two simple questions, I could visualize half my closet emptying out — and the pure joy of letting all that unnecessary crap go!
Gretchen advises us to ask some questions similar to mine above PLUS these winners:
- Am I keeping this item because I have buyer's remorse?
- Should I wear this item?
Say goodbye to that blouse I ordered online that makes me look like I'm wearing a ruffled tablecloth. Sayonara UGLY oversized T-shirts I've been wearing to bed for years. Later adorable sandals I got on sale but that squeeze my toes into fat sausages in the summertime. So long oversized cutoff sweats I might wear to garden sometime. Good riddance jeans two sizes too big that I hold onto for my "fat" days.
Even better than the physical stuff, I could let go of the GUILT of buyer's remorse (I had the best intentions when I purchased you, but I'm just not that into you). And I could give myself permission to dress the best I can ALL the time — even in the garden and especially when I get into bed with my husband (he did admit to having a small attachment to one of the ugly T-shirts but gave his acceptance to let it go in the end).
Gretchen talks a lot about the importance of decluttering our minds — and simplifying your life and your closet does this in more ways than you can imagine.
I had my husband go through his clothes and shoes too, and now we can fit a little chair for shoe-tying/buckling/strapping in our closet (see above).
Oh yeah, this is the good stuff. Way good.
Are you ready to take on decluttering a closet in your home and in your mind? I want to hear all about it if you take the steps herein.