Sense memories are often unforgettable because they are experienced through one of the five senses — sight, sound, touch, smell, or taste. These kinds of memories hold fast in our long-term memory.
I asked several CafeMoms to share one of their favorite childhood sense memories — one unshakable and positive memory that has stayed with them since they were girls.
The answers I got are downright poetic. Completely beautiful. And even more amazing to consider from the perspective of motherhood — to think what our children might someday remember and cherish about home and daily life... Wow!
Here are some of the lovely childhood sense memories shared by CafeMoms:
momof3angela: My grandmother was a diligent cleaner, and I would sit for what felt like hours watching her iron. I can still smell the starch from when she would iron. My grandfather loves the outdoors (he's 93), and his rose bushes have been planted for over 50 years. I can still smell the roses through the open kitchen windows, as the wind would blow.
: Carving pumpkins... there is kind of a sensory overload there. The smell of the pumpkin pulp and the squishy feeling of cleaning it all up. Then there is the smell of the freshly baked pumpkin seeds... and the taste. I have carried this tradition down with my kids, and we all love and look forward to the day we pick pumpkins and the family fun of carving them.
PinkSodaPop: I stressed if I could be a great mother... as I had stepped into the role as a single parent. When I got home from the hospital, I was pretty darn miserable and hormonal, and my hands were very dry from the constant cleaning. I had a bottle of the very same brand of baby lotion my mother used so long ago. I put some on... The smell reminded me of my mom, and I was totally thrown into a state of calm from the familiar smell of the baby lotion. It made me think... I can get this mother thing down because I learned from the best mom. I can be great at motherhood.
honeybee69: I remember very well dragging a cinder block over to a tree stump. My dad put it on the stump for me. I use to sit there in the sun with the wind blowing my hair and play with these little toy necklace links. I was about three years old at the time.
Cafe MicheleZ: When I stayed at my grandma's house as a kid, she let me sleep in her bed. I remember her pillows being very fluffy, where your head sank into them. They always had a slight floral smell with a touch of pepper. I can't explain the scent... it was soft, like home away from home. Like grandma and grandpa's house.
Peajewel: I loved the smell of my fresh sheets on my bed. My mom's linen closet is the one scent that still sticks with me as an adult. I am not even sure what scent mixes are in there that make this such a sweet scent for me, but I do love it! Once in awhile somehow my sheets will have that scent, and it takes me back to when I was a kid.
truckincowgirl: We went camping with several close family friends and our horses when I was younger. We rode the trails all day long. My favorite time of the day was morning. I was usually one of the first to rise. I sat beside the campfire and listened. I heard the horses shuffling their feet anxiously awaiting their breakfast, birds waking for the day, the campfire crackling to life from fresh wood, the horses snickering as they heard their owners walking toward them, horses munching on grain and hay, bridles or spurs clanging as riders checked their gear in preparation for the day's ride, kids waking for the day, bacon crackling on the grill, good friends and family gathering for breakfast. The sounds of mornings at the campground preparing for a day of riding — one of the best memories from my childhood for sure.
Cafe Cynthia: My mother never used the dryer unless it was a blizzard out, still doesn't. My bed sheets, freshly dried on the line outside, were stiff, cold, and smelled like sunshine and flowers. To this day visiting home and curling up into those sheets makes me feel like a little girl again.
NYCBrit: Middle Tennessee's main crop is tobacco, and after it's harvested, they dry it out in the barns with smoke. And they always do it at the end of summer/early fall. The smell of tobacco smoking in the barns is so unique, and it always brings me back to my childhood in the country.
mamaoftwins9197: My Nanny's grilled cheese sandwiches — she made them thick and cooked them just right. The cheese was always melty and messy and so yummy! I've tried so hard to make mine like hers, but nothing ever comes close. I miss them and her. Every time I have a grilled cheese, I think of her, even though none compare!
ohiomommyof2: I grew up in the country, without a lot of kids my age. There was one boy my age, who lived next door. We spent hours in the summer time running in the field between our houses, playing tag, rolling in the "blow flowers" and picking honeysuckle. There were always bees around so sometimes it was tricky, but we never failed to grab a few stalks of honeysuckle. It tasted so sweet. Now, 20+ years after those great summers, the smell of honeysuckle always takes me back to that time, and to my childhood friend.
beanielips: I grew up on a rice farm. In the fall, when my mom came in my room to tuck me in, she opened the windows for the night. I smelled the freshly harvested rice (almost smells like a mowed lawn) and heard the crickets chirping and the coyotes whining. She tucked my sister and me in by fanning the sheets on us and then turned off the light. Then she sat in there with us and talked for a little bit. As our eyes adjusted to the dark, we saw the stars out the window.
What about your memories? Share with us one of your favorite childhood sense memories — an unshakable and positive memory of sight, sound, touch, smell, or taste.
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Comments (10)
I think my best memories are tied to smells. Whenever I think of my childhood 1 thing always pops into my head...the smell of fresh baked chocolate chip cookies, mixed with the smell of pine insense on a cold winter day after school with Christmas music in the background and twinkling lights all around our apartment.
To this day me and my dad still light the same kind of pine insense at Christmas time and I still bake cookies (using many of the same recipes my mom used) like a mad woman. And I insist on putting up the tree and lights every year even though it is the biggest pain in the butt.
I used to wear the same apron my mom used to wear. I have this image of her in her yellow (or green...they were matching but different colors) apron, standing in the kitchen, a bowl of fresh backed cookies on the table, more cooling on racks, more in the oven and 2 beater blades ready to be licked when we got home from school. I no longer have the apron though. When we moved out of apt it was stolen along with a lot of other stuff. Those 2 things were among some that were truely unreplaceable and broke my heart (my mom died in 2000...I don't have much to remember her by).
Both my parents worked, so any family time was special. A real treat was mixing up and baking a huge batch of chocolate chip cookies from scratch. With four kids very close to the same age to "help" and the mess and chaos that comes along with trying for the work to be equal, it was always an exciting and interesting endeavor.
I love the smell of vanilla in everything, and the smell of baking cookies takes me back to childhood memories and always brings a smile.
I absolutely LOVE reading all of the other sense memories! --- This is SUPER COOL!

Thanks everyone for sharing your stories!
Such great memories...I love this idea.
low tide. other people hate it and say it smells like trash - but it reminds me of my childhood and lots of foggy early mornings on the water.
I agreee with PinkSodaPop, it is fun to read what everyone had to say and some brought tears to my eyes.
For me, it has to be fresh laundry coming from the neighbor's yards. As a kid, I'd walk down my block and try to figure out who was doing laundry during the springtime.
I, too, loved reading everyone's special sensory memories :0) Looking forward to my own children/grandchildren sharing some of their favorites that I may have added one day down the road.
The smell of my grandmothers perfume..Chanel. my grandmother has been gone for years but occasionally the smell comes by me. When someone walks by with it on my grandmother comes to mind. I love the smell of cooked apples, my ggmother, and pinesol, my mother used pinesol on everything. I know when her cleaning day was because we would come home after school with the windows open the nice clean floor and the fresh smell of pinesol.
My favorite sensory childhood memory is the smell of my Grandma's house. Hers always smelled like clean laundry and yummy food.